If a child lives with criticism, He learns to condemn. If a child lives with hostility, He learns to fight. If a child lives with ridicule, He learns to be shy. If a child lives with shame, He learns to feel guilty. If a child lives with tolerance, He learns to be patient. If a child lives with encouragement, He learns confidence. If a child lives with praise, He learns to appreciate. If a child lives with fairness, He learns justice. If a child lives with security, He learns to have faith. If a child lives with approval, He learns to like himself. If a child lives with acceptance and friendship, He learns to find love in the world.   Copyright © 1972/1975 by Dorothy Law Nolte This poem begins a great book titled "Children Learn What They Live" and is a must have for all parents and anyone else directly involved in a child's life.  I have this book and I have used it several times in working with families and child care providers, not to mention that it makes a great baby shower gift for new parents.  This book really helped me out when I became a new mom in wanting to teach my children values. Graphics & Set Design ©JaMi 2006. Home