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~ MRS. SHARP'S TRADITIONS ~



NOTE: The entire text below is taken directly from the book Mrs. Sharp’s Traditions. I cannot take credit in any form for the ideas and creativity on this page unless so noted. The book is written by Sarah Ban Breathnach and is currently out of print. If you can find a copy (the softcover version is called Victorian Family Celebrations), definitely grab it and run…and DON’T lend it to a friend because you’ll probably never get it back!

April is a saucy flirt, beckoning the family outdoors with bright sunshine smiles and then, in a temper tantrum, sending us all rushing back indoors dripping wet from her mercurial showers. That’s why our favorite April amusements are both indoors as well as out. Among the April pleasures awaiting Mrs. Sharp’s family: a festive All Fool’s Day dinner, an observance of Arbor Day, and the joys of a well-stocked Rainy Day Cupboard. Eastertide usually comes this month with a week-long celebration of painted eggs, hot cross buns, decorating new bonnets, and putting up our beloved Easter egg tree, creating Easter nests in the backyard, and hosting an old-fashioned egg hunt for the children and their friends. Finally, we will look at the Jewish celebration of Passover.



~ APRIL FOOLS’ DAY ~
At Mrs. Sharp’s house on the first of April our merriment is devoted more to the idea of playing together as a family than playing practical jokes on each other. Instead we try to devise comical surprises and absurd, but amusing and unembarrassing, situations. One of the family’s favorite games is switching roles ~~ Father and Mother become babies and the children take on the role of adults. Other April Fools’ suggestions include a spontaneous outing for fun with the idea being to take a break from the daily routine and play together. Another favorite custom is a treasure hunt with Mrs. Sharp hiding small surprises throughout the house but in the most unlikely places. The day ends with a festive All Fools’ Supper, a menu of delicious but disguised foods: mock turtle soup, eggplant caviar, beef "birds" in fried potato nests, the season’s first fresh asparagus (dressed as wheat sheaves). Our finale is appropriately known as "April Fool," the delightful English confection of fruit and whipped cream.



~ RAINY DAY OCCUPATIONS and a list for a RAINY DAY CUPBOARD ~
One of the hardest challenges for parents are rainy days when the children must stay indoors and limit their activities despite seemingly boundless energy. Every Victorian mother had in her storehouse of tricks what we called "rainy day occupations" to help pass the hours pleasantly while the family was cooped up indoors. One of Mrs. Sharp’s most beloved traditions for rainy days is to prepare crumpets for teatime. Afterward, the family writes letters to friends and family. The younger children draw or paint pictures. Another favorite activity is the making of scrapbooks, scrap-picture folders, and screens. However, Mrs. Sharp’s favorite rainy day tradition is the well-stocked Rainy Day Cupboard. As with any ritual, it is important that once you establish your Rainy Day Cupboard, drawer, or box, you limit its use to the particular time you will really need it, namely on rainy days. There can be no exceptions. In Mrs. Sharp’s cupboard, similar items, such as natural materials and art supplies, are kept together in small boxes that are labeled. Here is a list of basic elements to get you started:

A file of old Christmas cards, postcards, fancy magazines, seed catalogues, and old calendars for cutting up
A variety of small paper bags
Art supplies: special crayons, paints, and colored pencils
Bag of stuffing for soft toys or puppet heads
Beads for stringing
Bits of wood, sandpaper
Cellophane tape, double-sided sticky tape
Colored index cards
Discarded rolls of wallpaper
Egg cartons
Elastic
Empty aluminum, disposable muffin tins
Empty matchboxes
Empty scrapbooks or blank artists’ sketchbooks
Empty spools from thread
Empty Styrofoam meat trays
Envelopes
Feathers
Glue, paper paste
Modeling clay
Natural materials: pinecones, small twigs, large flat, smooth stones and shells collected on nature excursions
Odd buttons
Pieces of colored felt
Pipe cleaners
Popsicle sticks
Scissors
Sheets of interesting or pretty wrapping paper
Small bells
Small boxes
Soap for carving
Stickers
Stiff cardboard
String
Tiny scraps of interesting fabrics such as lace, fur, velvet and corduroy
Yarn and odd balls of wool



~ EASTER-TIDE ~

The celebration of Easter in America was introduced by German Protestant immigrants in the mid 1700s, but Easter was not widely celebrated here until after the Civil War when its theme of resurrection and renewed hope could offer the bereaved new meaning during the years of Reconstruction. In Mrs. Sharp’s home,our family celebration of Eastertide begins on Palm Sunday witht he children’s procession of palm stick crosses; at Mrs. Sharp’s we invite friends over in the afternoon for a backyard procession. Each palm stick cross is as unique as its little creator, but the basics begin with two dowels lashed together as a cross and secured with craft wire. Now let each child add greenery, such as boxwood, palms, spring flowers, and colored ribbon streamers. Finally each cross is topped off with a bread-dough chick. Use your favorite bread dough (refrigerated breakfast-roll dough also works well) to form a small round bun, then pull out a head and beak and add a raisin for the eye. To give the chicky a shiny coat, brush on egg yolk-and-water glaze on it just before baking.

The children know Easter is almost here when Mrs. Sharp begins making hot cross buns on Good Friday.

MRS. SHARP’S HOT CROSS BUNS
2 packages dry yeast
1/3 cup sugar
2/3 cup milk, scalded
3 ½ cups all purpose flour
½ cup melted butter
3 eggs, beaten
2/3 cups currants
½ teaspoon cinnamon
1 egg white

Soften yeast in warm water. Dissolve sugar in scalded milk. Let milk cool, then combine 1 cup of flour, yeast, and milk-sugar mixture together. Beat together. Add butter, salt, eggs, and remaining flour. Hand beat until light (about 5 minutes). Cover with damn dish towel, set in a warm spot, and let rise until doubled (about 1 hour). Beat down and then add currants and cinnamon. Roll dough ½ inch thick on a floured dough. Shape into buns (or cut into circles using a small juice glass). Place on a greased baking sheet. Cover and let rise for about 30 minutes or until dough feels springy and is about double in size. Cut a deep cross into the top of each bun with a sharp knife. Brush with slightly beaten egg white. Bake at 350 degrees for 12-14 minutes.
To make a glaze, dissolve 4 teaspoons granulated sugar in 6 tablespoons of milk and boil for 2 minutes. Brush warm buns twice with this syrup to glaze.

~ EASTER NESTS, EGG ROLLS, AND BONNETS ~

NATURAL EASTER NESTS ~ The day before Easter, one of the lovliest Victorian traditions Mrs. Sharps’s children enjoy is the creating of the Easter egg nest for the Easter Hare. Each child prepares his or her own next in the backyard for the Easter Bunny to leave his treasures for the children. To create the nests the children gather flowers, grasses, twigs and other natural materials, then add colored ribbons, paper grass, or shredded tissue paper. The next morning they find their Easter baskets in their nests.

EGG HUNT & EGG ROLL PARTY ~ Let each of the children invite a couple of friends over on Easter Monday and tell them each to bring over an empty basket. Instead of dyeing eggs for large groups of children, Mrs. Sharp uses plastic eggs, which she fills with candy; plan on four eggs per child. Count how many eggs you are hiding around the backyard before depositing them. This way you’ll know when the hunt is officially over. To make the hunt fair, Mrs. Sharp divides the children into two age groups. We have the older children search in one part of the yard and the little ones in another. Before the hunt begins, explain some simple rules: each child must stop after finding four eggs, and there is no fighting over the eggs. Mrs. Sharp also hides two gold-foil-wrapped eggs (one for each age group). The finders of the golden eggs receive a small chocolate bunny as a prize.

After the hunt is over, have everyone head out to the drive or street (which is closed off to traffic). Now it is the time for the Easter egg roll. Divide the children into two age groups. For the younger children, mark out with chalk a straight path about 8 feet long; for the older children it is fun to curve the pathway. Give each of the children a long-handled spoon to push hard-boiled eggs inside the pathway. Anyone whose egg crosses out of the chalk lines is out. The first egg across the finish line wins. Now it is time for a picnic of egg-salad sandwiches, cookies and lemonade!

No spring interlude would be complete without an afternoon of hat decorating, Mrs. Sharp’s family’s last Easter tradition. You will need plain straw hat bases, colors of hat veiling, trim, flowers, feathers and ribbon. Then our fun begins! At the end of the happy afternoon we have an Easter bonnet parade before a festive tea party at which Father and the boys join us, provided compliments on our handiwork accompany them!



~ EASTER EGG TREE ~
To create an Easter egg tree, use either a plain tree limb with many brances, spray-painted white, or if you prefer a natural tree, use branches of flowering cherry, dogwood, or pussy willow. Plant the tree branch firmly in a heavy pot full of damp sand and stones. I like to place this in a large Easter basket, covering the top of the sand with colored excelsior or paper grass. Next, nestle wooden (or plastic!) eggs into the grass. The children trim the tree with blown-egg ornaments they have created (directions for this are below), as well as such seasonal delights as miniature chicks, lambs, bunnies and doll-size baskets. With colored excelsior, we fashion tiny bird nests to rest between the branches. (Kris’ note: I think a tree decorated with plastic eggs would be just as nice and easier for the little ones to handle. The older children (or the parents) could glue hanging ribbons onto the eggs and the younger children could fill them with candy. The eggs could be opened on Easter and the candy shared with the entire family!)

~ BLOWN-EGG ORNAMENTS ~
Have the eggs at room temperature. Take a large needle ~~ a long carpet needle works best ~~ and carefully pierce a hole at either end of the egg. Make one of the holes larger than the other. Hold the egg over a bowl and gently blow the contents out. Rinse the egg with water so that no egg residue remains and let it dry completely (overnight is best) on a paper towel. The next morning, paint your eggs. After you have decorated an egg, take a twelve inch length of brightly colored embroidery dloss; threat the carpet needle and pull it through the egg’s two holes. Knot one end. If you would like to keep your egg ornaments looking fresh, spray them with artists’ acrylic fixative. Note: Children will break a lot of eggs, so keep that in mind with planning your ornaments. You can salvage the broken eggshells by gluing tiny chenille chicks, flowers, and ribbons to them for pretty novelties.



~ ARBOR DAY ~
At Mrs. Sharp’s house we celebrate the spirit of this noble, albeit unofficial, holiday. One Saturday in April, according to the family’s schedule, is designated "Arbor Day," which chance would have it coincides very neatly with the need to tidy up the outdoors for spring planting. On this festive day the family gets up bright and early and after a delicious breakfast, heads out the back door together. First we do an inventory of all our gardening supplies and tools while straightening out the shed. Next, everyone is presented a new, clean pair of gardening gloves and perhaps a new gardening accessory, tool or basket. We then go to work. All the children have their own trees, planted when they were babies, as well as a small patch of earth designated as their own garden. Soon they are all merrily raking up twigs and leaves. The trees each get a bright ribbon tied around its truck to salute Arbor Day. After our gardening chores are completed, it is time to plant or unveil this year’s Arbor Day remembrance, either a small fruit tree or flowering shrub.



~ PASSOVER ~

For over 3,000 years Jewish families around the world have been gathering together in the springtime to observe one of the oldest festivals in existence, Passover or Pesach, which commemorates the deliverance of the Israelites from slavery under the Pharaoh and their departure with Moses in search of the Promised Land. Passover is a solemn but joyful eight-day celebration that begins on the eve of the 14th day in the Jewish month Nisan with a festive seder dinner in the home. During the seder dinner, the youngest child asks 3 historical questions and the family then listens in rapt attention to a reading of the Haggadah that vividly recounts the Exodus from Egypt. Unleavened bread, known as matzoh, is eaten to symbolize the haste with which the Jewish people fled into the wilderness. Bitter herbs or maror is served as a reminder of the harshness of slavery. Haroset, a mixture of sweet fruits and nuts, commemorates the mortar the Jewish slaves used in building the pyramids in Egypt. "For many people of all ethnic groups, holidays are the last ties binding them to their family and their tradition," writes Joan Nathan in her wonderful cookbooks, The Jewish Holiday Kitchen and The Children's Jewish Holiday Kitchen (view these titles available for purchase at Books.com by clicking here). "This is even more true for the Jews, given the importance of our dietary laws and the table-centered rituals involved in the Sabbath and holidays."







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