The
Story Tellers
We
are the chosen. My feelings are in each family
there
is one who seems called to find the ancestors.
To put flesh on their bones and make them live
again,
to tell the family story and to feel that
somehow
they know and approve. To me, doing
genealogy
is not a cold gathering of facts but,
instead,
breathing life into all who have gone
before.
We are the story tellers of the tribe. All tribes have
one.
We have been called as it were by our genes.
Those
who have gone before cry out to us: Tell
our
story. So, we do. In finding them, we somehow
find
ourselves.
How many graves have I stood before now and
cried?
I have lost count. How many times have I
told
the ancestors you have a wonderful family you
would
be proud of us?
How many times have I walked up to a grave and
felt
somehow there was love there for me? I cannot
say.
It goes beyond just documenting facts. It goes to
who
am I and why do I do the things I do? It goes
to
seeing a cemetery about to be lost forever to
weeds
and indifference and saying I can't let this
happen.
The bones here are bones of my bone and flesh
of
my flesh. It goes to doing something about it.
It
goes to pride in what our ancestors were able
to
accomplish. How they contributed to what we
are
today. It goes to respecting their hardships
and
losses, their never giving in or giving up,
their
resoluteness to go on and build a life for
their
family.
It goes to deep pride that they fought to make and
keep
us a Nation. It goes to a deep and immense
understanding
that they were doing it for us.
That
we might be born who we are. That we might
remember
them. So we do. With love and caring
and
scribing each fact of their existence, because
we
are them and they are us. So, as a scribe called,
I
tell the story of my family. It is up to that one
called
in the next generation to answer the call
and
take their place in the long line of family
storytellers.
That, is why I do my family genealogy, and that
is
what calls those young and old to step up and
put
flesh on the bones.
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