Members of the household: mother who is deaf and makes one or two telephone calls per day,

my brother, idem.

myself I hardly am home, ...

and now a bit of psychoanalysis for women...

stay tuned

it is hot!

"The Subjection of Women"

"Most women, apparently succumbing to the euphuistic prose and poetry about sweet femininity and domesticity, do not seem to know or care about the grossly inferior place to which they have been relegated. As a matter of irony, women themselves, in a form of self-hate, generally condemn members of their own sex who strive for SOMETHING BETTER.

(a break; HOW COULD I FAIL TO SEE: YOU ARE MY GOD OF DESTINY, ONLY I ASK IS TO BE DEVOUTED TO THEE ... SO HAVE YOUR WAY WITH ME... SO THERE IS JUST ONE THING THAT I WILL SING... MY ONLY DESIRE IS TO BE WITH YOU LORD NOW AND FOREVER... JESUS, MY JESUS...)-

sorry I can`t help it...

a noi...
stavamo dicendo...

"It is the old story that, once they have gained it, men and institutions rarely give up power without pressure to do so. In the case of women, the pressures have been minimal because they have dutifully "known their place" and made virtues out of submission, docility, and inferiority. They become exstatic over the niggardly crumbs handed to them. The difficulty here is that all those tasks and roles assigned to women are principally in the realm of biology, the having and feeding of children, the care of the lean-to, and a variety of things that a self-respecting male would consider demeaning and would stalk off the job if asked to do. According to statistics, in 1969 there were working women. But the vast majority were working at very menial jobs. When the Harvard Business Review attempted to make a survey of women`s executive opportunities, they gave up in despair, the barriers being so great that there was scarcerly anything to study. The percentage of women in the professions has actually declined since the 1930s.

There is tragic irony in the generally held belief that women are strongly "narcissistic." This term is applied to them because of their well-known habits of er self-preening and other self-attending activities. The importance they place on their clothes, mannerism, and other attention-getting devices as well as their so-called propensity for hypochondriasis and psychomatic disorders have led many erroneously to feel and write that women have a high level of narcissism in them. The opposite, of course, is the case. IT HAS BEEN OBSERVED THAT SELF-LOVE, AS FAR AS THE FEMALE IS CONCERNED, IS GROSSLY WANTING. IT IS BOTH SCARSE IN WOMEN AND POORLY TOLERATED BY SOCIETY WHEN IT EXISTS."

...//PSYCHOANALYSIS AND WOMEN edited by Jean Baker Miller, M.D. A Pelican original

(I hope I don`t loose you on the way: just follow me... but for today you`ve got enough)

Je m`en vais... au revoir... je vous aime...

YOU SWEET LITTLE ANGELS... who hear the good news, (gossips I mean) with great reverence, and take it so seriously...,

(only because it would suit your pocket... not because you do really believe at the lebanese, greek, indian, musulman ballooning...) which is being told by people who like to go for confession, so that they can hide their aberration...,

(just know that I am for "REAL THEATER" as Dario Fo says,

I believe that the true theater, is the theater of life, the true actors are the people that you meet... every day, everywhere... hence the importance of PUBLIC CONFESSION..., not private so that you can hide yours sins... PUBLIC... so that everyone will get to know if you are saying the truth or not)

ARE YOU STILL SINGING?

ONCE upon a time there was a man who came to my house, he said "I don`t know what to do, my wife doesn`t want me anymore..."

that man after two weeks shot himself in front of the Crucifix in the grounds of a certain church.

I guess God must have told him,

"Shoot yourself in front of me, so that they can come and clean up the mess that they have created. You are now a zombie, you are useless for life..."

that man was driven to crazyness by his own family, and church and surroundings, I still can hear his words in my ears "my wife doesn`t want me anylonger..."
but I still can hear the words of his mother when she was alife

"Remember, that my son is much younger than you. You may be making a mistake..."

She wasn`t making a mistake.

She wanted that man so that she could come to Australia, bring her whole family

and then study and better herself at the expense of daddy dear... And once she achieved her education

and reached her goal there was no reason of living peacefully with him.

HOW ARE YOU SISTER IN LAW DEAR...

HOW ARE YOUR STUDIES GOING?

DID YOU BECOME A DOCTOR YET?

AND HOW IS YOUR DAUGHTER IN LAW WHO IS SUPPOSED TO GET HER EDUCATION OVER A BOY THAT BARELY REACHED THE AGE OF 20

WHEN HE WAS PRESCRIBED TO BE MARRIED?
HOW ARE YOU LIQUIDATOR WHO THINKS THAT YOU CAN ENTER MY FAMILY`S LIFE IN SUCH A THOUNDEROUS MANNER?

HOW ARE YOU PRIESTS WHO CAN PRESCRIBE A WOMAN TO BE MARRIED TO A DIVORCEE?

HOW ARE YOU LORD JESUS CHRIST?