You actually came to this page?? You Perv!!!
Just kidding. I put this page up for a reason. A lot of people ask me questions about bondage (god knows why) and it's been getting a little bit irritating lately so I put up a page for it. Pretty logical, right? Yeah. Anyhow, here is a little T&A....um, I mean Q&A about BDS&M.....
General
Q: What is BDS&M?
A: Bondage, Dominance, Sadism and Masochism.
Q: What does it mean?
A: Bondage is what it sounds like, bounding someone with rope, handcuffs, duct tape, etc. during sexual practices. Dominance + Submission are more of a role-playing thing which we'll get into later. Sadism + Masochism are more of the bloodsports, which we'll also get into later...
Dominance + Submission
Q: What is dominance and submission?
A: Dominance is a roleplaying thing between two partners where one takes the 'dominant' role and one is the submissive, who succumbs to the 'orders' or 'wishes' of the dominant one.
Q: How do you decide?
A: Well, usually in a relationship, there will be one partner who is more dominant than the other. It is always more fun to reverse the trend during sex. For example, if the male is generally the dominant one in the relationship, you may want to have him become the submissive during sex. Some men have fantasies of being dominated by a woman too....
Sadism + Masochism
Q: What is sadism and masochism?
A: Generally, it's bloodsport or the infliction of pain upon your partner during sex.
Q: Examples?
A: Well, like the use of razor blades or whips or asphyxiation during sex or foreplay.
Q: Isn't it dangerous?
A: Of course it's dangerous. I wouldn't practice these things unless there is a GREAT deal of trust in your relationship or unless you are skilled and know what you're doing. In this practice, the most important thing to remember is the word "STOP", and to do so when asked.
I promise I'll try to get more stuff up here eventually......I'm still working on it so be patient......If you have any questions about BDS&M that aren't up here, please mail me with them.....I'd be more than happy to post em up here. Thanx.
