Pledging Vs. Hazing
Pledge (plej) n.(1) A person undergoing a trial period before formal
initiation into a fraternity or sorority. (2) a) To accept tentative membership
in a fraternity or sorority. b) to accept as a pledge. (3) Something promised
esp. money to be contributed in regular payments.
Haze (haz) vt. hazed, haz'ing [< ? OFr haser ] 1) Naut. to punish or harass by
forcing to do hard, unnecessary work. 2) to initiate or discipline (fellow
students) by forcing to do ridiculous, humiliating, or painful things.
Taken from Webster's New World Dictionary; Third College Edition 1989
It is now time that we cover one of the most pressing issues facing Black
Greek Lettered Organizations. The issue of Pledging vs. Hazing. Before I
begin this I must warn you. This page in particular is made to offend some of
those who read this. The reason being their are those, no matter what the
organization, who will tell you that they pledged, but their actions are
contradictory to what "TRUE" pledging stands for. There are others who say
that they didn't pledge, but this information will prove otherwise.
Now let us begin. If you have read the previous information in this site you
have gathered quite a bit about the philosophies of Black Greek Lettered
Organizations. How we began, what we represent, and for many of us what we
have lost. You have been given a glimpse into the things that unifies us in the
hope that knowledge will destroy or dispel those things that separate us. It is
sad to say that one thing that separates us, not as much as organizations, but
more as members is the issue of how a person should be brought into an
organization. If you ask a member about hazing, in most cases you will get
the rehearsed, "We are non-hazing organizations." Yet there are many
chapters of any organization that are known to make their pledges do some
questionable deeds. Here at the Temple we won't make excuses for what
others do, and at the same time we don't want to come off as liars. So here is
my "personal" spin on the issue at hand.
For a moment let us go back in time. Back to the time of the
Egyptian/African traveler. Let us take a look at him/her before he/she set out
on the journey to the land of the Greeks as a bringer of "LIGHT". Let us
remember what it was like when the traveler himself/herself walked in
"DARKNESS" in search of "LIGHT". First, the traveler had a desire to
become more than he/she was. He/She had a thirst for knowledge; a thirst so
strong that the traveler prayed to GOD for the right direction. The traveler
next inquired of the great minds of the time, for he/she wanted to become like
them. Once a sage or griot (teacher) was found that would take the traveler
in, the traveler was set with a challenge or as we call it a CHARGE. There
were four charges that existed: The Charge of Instruction, The Charge of
Liability, The Charge Duty, and The Charge by Wood & Fire. The definition
of The Charge of Instruction is to give instructions to or command with
authority. The definition of The Charge of Liability is to put liability on a
person or to make liable. The definition of The Charge of Duty is to have
care, custody, or supervision over.
When the first three charges were given out the traveler was joined by others
who, like him/her, were in search of "LIGHT". It was by instruction they
were taught how to walk in the ways of great thinkers. Together they were
made liable for the knowledge they were given. If one possessed "LIGHT"
they must ALL possess "LIGHT". If one was to fall short then it was up to
them "ALL" to carry that person. It was their duty to protect the knowledge
and each other with their lives if need be. They were expected to one day
become teachers, poets, philosophers, engineers, architects, and leaders
amongst men & women. For one day they would take on the titles of great
sages or griots charged with the job of dispensing "LIGHT" to the those
walked in "DARKNESS".
After it was seen fit that they were ready to become full fledged travelers, they
were tested by wood and fire. Wood was believed to be the purest form
known to ancient man. In Egypt, known as Kemet then, wood was exalted
because it contained three of the four elements: Earth, Wind, and Water. The
fourth element, Fire, returned the wood to its basic components. Since wood
was considered to be so pure, the Egyptians took it and "GENTLY" tapped
the female sex organ with it. They believed that it would bring fertility to the
female. It is for this reason that would be travelers were tested. They were
"TAPPED" with wood in order to bring fertility to the
brotherhood/sisterhood. They experienced trial by fire in order to return them
to their original elements that made them men/women.
Now you might ask how does this apply to the differences between pledging
and hazing. Think for a minute over the journey of the traveler; read the two
definitions. You must know that the pursuit of knowledge is similar to the
trial period by which men/women are made. Understand that at some point in
our lives, each one of us set out in search of "LIGHT". This same "LIGHT"
was meant to manifest a love in our hearts for GOD, ourselves, our fellow
man, our fellow woman, and our world. Pledging was designed to bring out
the best in the pledge or aspirant. It was created to be a time of bonding, a
time of struggle, a time of growth, but most of all a time of joy. For those
who pledged they walked in "DARKNESS" in search of the "LIGHT" that
the organization had to offer. For those who did the pledging; it was meant to
be their transition from recipients of "LIGHT" to dispensers of "LIGHT".
Unfortunately, the process of pledging at some point for many became a
process of hazing. The trials for the purpose of bonding became trials of who
could make a person laugh at the torment of others. The trials by which
knowledge was taught and learned became trials of a person's pain threshold.
The day that pledging became hazing, many members of Black Greek
Lettered Organizations lost the knowledge of who we are and why we exist. If
you were to ask a person who "CLAIMS" they pledged why the wood is used;
there are many who would shrug their shoulders and say they didn't know. If
you asked them why they are called a line; they would look at you with a
puzzled frown on their face. If you asked them why their line is named like a
navel vessel; they would just ignore you. If you asked them what they are
doing not just for their organization, but for the empowerment of the Black
Community; they would have to sit and wonder. If you ask them how they
claim to be unified, but at the drop of dime they disrespect other Greek
Lettered Organizations; they would not know what to tell you.
To be honest there are many who fall prey to at least one of these situations.
There is no easy way to say this, but there is one thing that must be
considered. If you fall victim to the previously stated situations then it is
possible that you were hazed and not pledged. If you don't know why wood
was used, yet you are someone who thinks WOOD = PLEDGING; then I am
sorry to say that you have a lot to learn about pledging. If you think that
being forced to stay up all night for someone else's amusement is pledging;
then you have got a lot to learn about pledging. If you disrepect or look
down on other organizations; I am sorry to say you were not pledged. If you
think that because you didn't take wood that you didn't pledge; you might be
surprised to find out it is possible that you did pledge.
Pledging is supposed to teach three things. Loyalty to the principles of the
organization, loyalty to brotherhood/sisterhood amongst "ALL"
men/women, and loyalty to the community from which you came. If you
learned all of these things, no matter what your process was like, my
brother...my sister you were pledged. If you did not...I am sorry to say you
were hazed. To all my Greek, Non-Greek, etc. brothers & sisters, I charge you
with two questions only you can answer. Were you pledged or were you
hazed? Do you pledge or do you haze?
If fraternities and sororities are a "means of transportation" then we must
treat them with care so that we don't wreak them. For a man or woman that
pays for a car and wrecks it out of "IGNORANCE" is a fool. He/She not only
hurts themselves, but they hurt others in the process. The same way a person
performs maintenance on a vehicle to keep it running and looking its best is
the same way we must maintain our fellow members & fellow organizations.
We must treat our organizations, our brothers, and our sisters with respect,
for if we don't then who will?
Ahab El' Askeni
CPT. AHAB the PuPPeT MaStEr