Men & Women in Religion


Men & Women in Religion


When I wrote this paper it was for a religion class I was taking in College. In this context I focused on facts and was limited in the number of words allowed.

Since then, I went back to Christian Church for a while UNTIL the sermon was on women being subservient to men (see versus below). I walked out and only went back years later when my husband asked me to attend his church. And don’t you know it, the sermon was on ways that doubters will try to sway your opinion of Jesus. Well, I was “ding ding ding:” as the preacher went down the list. My husband just looked at me with an “oh shit” look. His going back to church was a path of his path to atheism.

- I just have not believed in a Jesus as taught in the churches I have attended could exist.
- I do not believe there is a God that says he loves his children and then burns them in hell forever if they don’t believe what some dude at a pulpit says.
- I do not believe in the “Bible” as the word of God.
- I do not believe organized religion is a good thing.
- I think there are good people who are Christians.
- I think Christianity is a complete brainwash of people and used to control them.

If you are interested and actually read this far, here are some links to visit

Debate: Is the Catholic Church a source of Good?
Mary Magdalene
The Lost Gospel of Judas

Ephesians 5:22-24 ...wives should submit to their husbands etc.
- 1 Timothy 2:11-15 A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent etc.
- 1 Corinthians 14:33-35 ...women should remain silent in the churches (and following).
- 1 Corinthians 11:3-16 Now I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man (and following).
- Colossians 3:18 Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.
- Peter 3:1-6 Wives in the same way be submissive to your husbands (and following).
- Titus 2: 4-5 Then they can train the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands so that no one will malign the word of God.

Men & Women in Religion
copyrighted Jan 2001 by Rebecca Kajzer

Most religions of today hold men in a position as leader while women are subservient. This system is supported by the belief that God and the Bible strictly endorse male domination in religious positions and has been widely accepted until the last few years. As more studies are published and the women’s movement grows, more women are contesting the roles assigned to them by traditional religions. New religions have been established as a result. Other religions fight to keep the status quo. There are many schools of thought on this subject, but for the purpose of this paper, traditional roles of men and women in religion will be explored from both points of view.

Traditional roles of men in the church include the priest, minister, rabbi, etc. Most churches do not allow women to have a vote in church matters and do not have sanctioned roles for women. Women have held supportive roles such as missionary, Sunday school teacher, etc.

Change has occurred over time with a few churches creating sanctioned positions for women. These may include women ministries in which women establish and run groups within the church that are dedicated to women’s issues. The need for these groups stems from women wanting to play an active role in the church and to provide support to other women. Also included as a benefit is the ability to work with others to satisfy the need for bonding that has traditionally occurred with the men in the church.

Catholic women are becoming more dominant in the church but still cannot become a priest and cannot perform Mass, baptisms or marriages. In the patriarchal religion Islam, women have strong roles and are seen as spiritual equals but cannot lead men in prayers. Men are the leaders, heads of the household while wives are subservient. Women however are held as the strength of character of the family, raising and teaching children about the ways of Islam. Some churches in more liberal religions or orders have begun to include women in leadership roles, even those of minister, pastor, etc. Women currently hold about 10 percent of the ordained clergy positions in United States U.S. Protestant churches. Since the 1970’s, the Episcopal Church, United Church of Christ, and the Evangelical Covenant Church have ordained women clergy. Denominations from the Wesleyan/Holiness tradition have ordained women pastors since the 19th century. Woman holding leadership positions within the church is a change that is gaining strength. One religion that has been riddled with controversy of late regarding the roles of men and women in the church is the Southern Baptist Group. At the July 2000 Southern Baptist Convention, this sector of that religion continued to adopt strict interpretations from the bible that ban women from pastoral positions as they continue to fight against a liberal culture.

Many Christians from other denominations interpret the Scripture differently, but the stance of the Southern Baptists conclude that the passages of 1 Timothy 2:12, "I permit no woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she is to keep silent", clearly states that women cannot hold any pastoral office. The traditional standard interpretation of 1 Timothy 2:12-14 is most concluded as the word of God establishing the subordinate roles of women to the authority of men in the church. The thinking behind this is that God established Adam as a male authority in the Garden of Eden, while in reality, there is nothing in Genesis to support this so called arrangement.

There are women pastors holding those positions within Baptist churches and those emphatically oppose the stance of the Southern Baptists. One notably outspoken Baptist female pastor quoted the following scripture when asked about the move by the Southern Baptist convention: Galatians 3:28, "There is no longer Jew or Greek, there is no longer slave or free, there is no longer male and female; for all of you are one in Christ Jesus".

There is fear that the stance held by the Southern Baptist Convention will allow for other Protestant religions to move backward. The Christian and Missionary Alliance voted in June 2000 that only men can hold the office of elder. This opposed the previous rule and the women that held elder positions will be replaced by men.

The following is a statement made by an authority within the Baptist religion in an effort to reassure Baptist women of their worth. "The Bible is clear that the pastorate is for men alone, but that doesn't mean that women are less than men, or that they have less of a contribution to make to the kingdom of Christ. Our churches would come to a standstill without the service and participation of women. We appreciate and affirm their many gifts and contributions to the ministry."

Although many traditional religions of today support the thinking that men are dominant over women because it is so ordained by God, there are many accounts in the Bible of women who were called by God to teach and lead both women and men. How then can so many religions ignore that God did bless women to serve him in spiritual positions? Maybe it is because these religions are run by men that have the only voting voice. One has to wonder if these religious leaders have read Joel 2:28-29; Acts 2:17-18, which is summed up as, “Believers are filled with the Holy Spirit and gifted in prophetic ministry without respect to age, gender or social status.”