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TALK GIVEN BY LOU LARSEN AT THE ANDERSON FAMILY REUNION HELD AT THE S. U. P. BUILDING, SALT LAKE CITY, JUNE 15, 1985.

When Dennis asked me to say some things that I could remember about Grandfather Anderson it seemed like I thought of a lot of things and then as I tried to put them down on paper, my memory is just up with my increased years and it began to fail me; so I don't know what I can say other than I know that Grandfather Anderson would certainly be very proud of his grand posterity and all of you here. I think that probably from Grandma Anderson must come the endowment of good cooking and good cooks. This wonderful meal that we've partaken of and enjoyed, I think speaks that. I know I ate more than I probably should have. I told some of you here that they told me at the V. A. (Veterans Administration Hospital) that I was kind of an s. o. b. and I wanted to know why that ? And they said well, that means "stomach over belt, " I think that must go for some of us. There are some wonderful cooks. More than their husbands ought to eat. One thing that came to my mind; one time Merrill was asked to give a lesson in priesthood and, more than one time I'm sure, but this particular time I happened to be there and Merrill asked Grandpa Anderson if he wouldn't come and talk and I don't know whether Merrill remembers this or not, but one thing that he said that has stayed with me for all my life, and it has been very meaningful to me - was this, and it was a quote, "What you think you can do, or dream you can do, begin it ! Boldness has wisdom and power in it. " And I guess to me that's kind of a part of John H. Anderson's philosophy, I know that be had a boldness and be had a lot of self-confidence and he had a lot of wisdom. . He wouldn't have been able to attain and accomplish the things that he has done or he did do without the perseverance and the diligence and a boldness to begin things and to accomplish things. My memory goes back to times when Ruth Mae and I would get up at the wee hours of the morning and watch the thrashers come in and thrash and see Grandfather leading a horse or supervising the putting of the bay in the barn, The wonderful garden that he always grew; and Ruth Mae and I could sure find our way out into the pea patch back of the shanty, eating our harvest and enjoying the fruits of his labors. He always had such a wonderful big garden and that kind of gave way to the beautiful flowers that he raised there. And I'm sure many of you can remember those magnificent sized plate dahlias, and the other wonderful, beautiful flowers that he grew. I always thought of him as a very thrifty person and I sure remember him riding his bicycle to work and to the bank and saving that beautiful automobile in the garage for Merrill to polish. Take it out on a Sunday or a special occasion. Some of those special occasions were going fishing. I think that was a worthy use of that automobile. He loved to fish. My mother (Charlotte) told me of her grandfather being quite a fisherman, how those nets that we could see and find around the old homestead were his so that he used to get up in the middle of the night when no one was about and take those nets down into the sloughs and the river down below Logan and seine fish. He loved to just fish and catch fish. He'd bring home a wagon load of fish and take them up to the yard and feed the pig and feed the chickens or bury them in the garden. I remember well the fishing trips that I had with my Grandfather. Marie and Merrill frequently took me along and we would be out fishing and enjoying the activity and then on the way home he would get everyone singing in the automobile. He loved to hear his children sing, and he really loved his children. He took me fishing a couple of times alone. I remember one time; he bad a great patience. I don't ever think I ever heard him raise his voice, I heard him say, "My Goodness! " a couple of times. And he had a way of putting forth his attitude and his feeling when he said "My Goodness!" that could have many different meanings. And when we arrived up at this one particular time fishing we were going to camp overnight and he prepared the meal and I sat down to eat it along with him and sat on his favorite fly-rod and it broke the tip, and he said, "Oh my goodness boy, my conscience! Can't you watch what you're doing ? " And that was all. He got no more flustered than that. And then I sat down again. I picked another spot. It was a very soft spot about that big around; it was green and afterwards it showed even more green. And he had to scrape a cow-pie off my pants. "Goodness boy, can't you be more careful ? " I remember the time we went up to the Madison River. He took me fishing on the Madison River once, Marie was my champion. She loved me. We went out and gathered willows and then Grandpa showed us how to make a bed out of those willows and put our bedding on. He had a wealth of lore. And I was trying to catch a fish and I beat the water - didn't have any success. He said, now, he said, watch me he said where would you fish right there ? And I said, oh, in the water. He said, well, try just in front of that big rock. So I cast my bait into the big rock and man, I caught a big fish ! And I just knew he was inspired. He was quite a fisherman. I can remember an amusing situation after a family gathering, going home with an extended belly. And I had eaten too many olives and I was sick and Grandpa came up to administer to me and before he administered to me he kind of gave me a little talking to about not letting my eyes get bigger than my stomach. He gave me some good grandfatherly advice. The reason I mention that is because a few times, all too few, that I heard him pray, I knew he knew who he was praying to and who he was talking with. He had a very definite hot-line, you might say, and a great communication with the Lord. And just certainly a tremendous person. I copied a few things from somebody else, put a little thought or two here of my own. John H. Anderson has been a very powerful force in my life. His example has touched me in so many ways. Not only desires to serve the Church, but to work hard, enjoy big projects and as I realize more and more in raising my children, hopefully the blessings of good parentage and grandparentage are carried on from generations; the desire to make our father and grandfather proud has been and will continue to be a major source of motivation to me. Perhaps the greatest Father's Day present we can give is the desire of prayer followed by interest that we will begin to realize here in this life that the greatest of all promised blessings is joy and rejoicing in our posterity. Thank You.

FOLLOWING ARE REMINISCENCES OF VARIOUS FAMILY MEMBERS

Merrill: I just want to make this observation; about the only time that Logan City ever operated within its budgets was when John H. Anderson was mayor. JR: A humorous note; one that shook my faith in the dignity of my grandfather Anderson, but I deserved what I got. Grandma and Grandpa were down visiting and we were all going out to Lagoon on an outing and I was in the back of the car and I'd been on a little temper tan-trum and acting like a little snot and I probably was. And Grandpa listened to this and the dialogue between Mother and I for about ten minutes and finally he turned around and looked me right in the eye and he said, "When you act like a baby, boy, you have to suck tit !" And I was thunderstruck. Imagine my grandfather Anderson using that language. I suspect I didn't say another word. Berneice: He was wonderful and I loved everything he did and everything he taught us. If you wanted to know anything about the Bible or anything about the Church he could help you and tell you. I'd like to say something about Grandma. You never could walk in but what she wanted to get you something, something to eat, "Can I fix you something to eat ? " Phil met her once when he went up to see her, He only met her for a few minutes. The minute he walked in she said, now what can I get you to eat ? And she just loved Phil and she wanted to do something for him. And he said he never felt so welcome. And she always said, where your heart is big enough, there's always enough for everybody. I think that's the way she lived, that's what she did. She was always so generous and so pretty. She had a purse. It was a lovely purse, a big one and it was always full of money. She always had the most money in that purse. And oh what a wonderful thing to put your hand in that purse and feel all the money. And she was always handing it out to the children and to you. And it was fun to get the little kids would go up there and they would just love her holding that purse out and hand the children some money and more quarters and fifty-cent pieces and dollars than anyone I've ever seen, but she always had some money and she always shared it and that's the way she was. She shared everything with everybody. She was the most generous, sharing person and the sweetest soul I ever knew. Lou: I wanted to say this, when I was up there; while it was not first hand, my mother told me that near the end, before he died, that just pointing out his generosity and his concern and consideration for his fellowman, that when people would come to the bank, some of his friends and people that he knew personally, and they couldn't qualify for a bank loan that he personally would then loan them money. And when he died he didn't want anyone to press these people for the monies that he had loaned them that were still owing and he had them come in, and Mother said, all one afternoon people came one after another and he would give them their note back and tear it up and tell them that they didn't owe anything that he was taking care of that now. Just pointing out his concern for his fellowman. And then something that she also told me that maybe many of you have known, that in his will be left the bulk of his estate to the Church and the Church would not accept it except all of his children agreed to this and they all agreed with one accord that if that was the way Father wanted it, that would be the way it would be, And he dealt fairly with each one of his children as he built them a home or given them a home or monies or whatever, He paid out all and then the rest, if I put it right Mother said, that he left his money to the Church, specifically the welfare plan and in it something about leaving it; we all pray for the poor and the sick and the needy and what do we do about it ? And therefore he left the bulk of his money to that program. I was going to school down in San Francisco working nights and going to school days getting very little sleep and I remember saying to Marie, I wonder if he didn't know that we were among the poor and the sick and the needy. Marie: President Grant came to the store one Saturday night and asked if John H. Anderson was there and I said no, he just was gone home. Very often I had to work in the store on Saturday because Merrill wouldn't. Anyway, I was there this particular time. I said he just went home and he said, well, where does he live ? And I told him and I said, oh, I'll be able to take you there because I'm his daughter, let me take you there. President Grant, you know how majestically he looked, he said, No You have been put here to do a job, you must stay here. That's where your father would want you, and he said, I'll find the way, and he did. He went out and oh I rushed over to Joe and John and said, did you know who that was ? And they were on the way to meet me. They said, what did he want ? And I told them and said he wouldn't let me take him home. But anyway, I couldn't wait to get home and see what President Grant wanted. And be had come to ask Father if the Church can buy some sugar stock. It was the U. & I. Sugar Corporation at that time and he had just a little stock left in it, Father said. I asked him how much it was and he said three thousand dollars. And President Grant said the Church was buying it all up and he found out that Father had this little amount. And he said, would you let us buy it ? And Father said, I will give it to you, the Church can have it. And President Grant, almost angrily said, "Brother Anderson, I did not come to ask you for it. I came to buy it !" And so he said, sure, whatever you want, and he did sell it to him. But I was just going to say that a few years ago I wrote out a talk on Mother and Melvin did on Father and Uncle Merrill did one on Mother and it was read at our reunion and at that time I was secretary and I still have a lot of these copies left and if any of you younger families would like them for a memory book, it'll only cost you a letter to me and I'll send it, send you a copy of any you want because I still do have a drawer full of these talks that we gave at the reunion. JR: When I married Shauna her Grandfather (George Albert Smith) recognizing that name (John H. Anderson) told me that at that time, John H. Anderson had contributed more to the welfare program of the Church save any other man than Heber J. Grant.

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