BDSM Checklist

Name:  baby

Date: 8/2012

Rate your Pleasure of that Activity: 

1 = disliked intensely,   2 = gave no pleasure,   3 = was just ok, 4 = liked it,   5 = extremely enjoyed.            

Would you Like to Do it (again)?   

Never = a hard limit,   No Desire = a soft limit,   Forced = if you were forced to you (might) like it,   Maybe = if under the right conditions, Yes = absolutely,   Fetish Need = this really turns you on and you can't live without it.

Ever Done?

Would You Like To Do?

ACTIVITY

Yes

No

Rate

Never

No   Desire

Forced

Maybe

Yes

Fetish Need

Abrasion (scraping, sanding)

x 

x

Age play (not pedophilia)

x 

x

Anal play

x 

4

x

Anal plugs - Small

x 

4 

x

Anal plugs - Medium

x 

x

Anal plugs - Large

x 

x

Anal plugs - public under clothes

x 

x

Anal sex

x 

3 

x

Animal role-play

x 

x

Arm and leg sleeves (binders)

x 

x

Asphyxiation

x 

x

Auctioned for Charity

x 

x

Ball stretching  N/A

Bathroom permission control

x 

 4

x

x

Beating hard

X

X

Beating soft

X 

X

Bestiality (sex with animals)

X 

X

Biting (being bitten)

 x

4 

x

Blindfolds

x 

 4

x

Bondage - light

x 

 4

x

Bondage - heavy

x 

 3

x

Bondage - all day/multi day

X 

 2

x

Boot worship

X 

Branding

X 

x

Breast bondage

X 

Breast fucking

x 

 3

Breast whipping

 X

x

Breath Control (choking)

 X

x

Breath Control (mild restriction)

 X 

x

Cages/Cells/Closets (locked inside)

 X 

x

Caning - English

X 

x

Caning - sensation

X 

3 

x

Catheterization

X 

x

Chains (bound with)

 X

x

Chamber-pot use

 X

x

Chastity device/belts

 X

x

x

Chauffeuring (driving)

 X

x

Chores (housework)

 X

4 

x

x

Chosen clothing for

X 

 4

x

x

Yes

No

Rate

Never

No   Desire

Forced

Maybe

Yes

Fetish Need

Chosen clothing for

X 

 4

x

x

Chosen food for

X 

X

Clamps - labia/clit area

X 

x

Clothespins

X 

x

Cock worship

X 

x

Collars - worn in private

X 

 4

x

Collars - worn in public

X 

 4

x

Contract slave

X 

 4

x

Corsets

X 

 4

x

Cross dressing

X 

x

Cuffs - leather

X 

 4

x

Cuffs - metal

X 

x

Cunnilingus (eating another woman)

X 

x

Cunnilingus (receiving oral)

X 

 5

x

x

Cutting - Blood play

X 

X

Daily diary

X 

x

Diapers

X 

X

x

Dilation

X 

x

Dildos - vaginal

X 

 5

x

Dildos - anal

X 

x

Double penetration

X 

x

Ear plugs

X 

x

Edge play (risk taking)

X 

x

Electricity - Internal (egg or probe)

X 

x

Electricity - TENS unit

X 

x

Electricity - Violet Wand

X 

x

Enemas - for cleansing

X 

x

Enemas - retention/training

X 

x

Exercise - forced/required

X 

x

x

Erotic dancing

X 

x

Examinations

X 

x

x

Exhibitionism (before friends)

X 

x

Exhibitionism (before strangers)

X 

x

Eye contact restrictions

 X

x

Face slapping

 X

x

Fantasy gang rape

 X

x

Fantasy rape play

 X

x

Fellatio (giving head to a Man)

 X

 4

x

Finger Claws

X

x

Fire play

X

x

Fisting - anal

 X

x

Fisting – vaginal – it’s been tried and failed

 X

x

Following orders

X 

5 

x

X

x

Foot worship

X 

x

Forced dressing

X 

x

Forced feminization – N/A

Forced homosexuality

X 

x

Yes

No

Rate

Never

No   Desire

Forced

Maybe

Yes

Fetish Need

Forced masturbation

X 

5 

x

Forced nudity

X 

4

x

Forced servitude

X 

x

Gags - bit

X 

x

Gags - cloth

X 

x

Gags - inflatable

 X

x

Gags - phallic

X 

x

Gags - rubber ball

X 

x

Gags - tape

X 

x

Genital sex

x 

5 

x

x

Golden showers (urinate on)

X 

X

Gor Slave Training (positions)

X 

3 

X

Group play - gang bang (multi men)

X 

X

Group play - multiple women +  man

X 

X

Group play - Orgy

X 

X

Hair pulling

X 

3 

x

Hairbrush Spankings

X 

 5

x

x

x

Harems (serving with other subs)

 X

x

Harnessing - leather

X 

x

Harnessing - rope

X 

x

High heel wearing – Don’t ‘need” to wear them, but really, really like to wear them.

X 

5 

x

High heel worship – N/A

Homage with tongue (licking)

X 

x

Hoods (full head)

X 

x

Hot wax - dripping on body/genitals

X 

4 

x

x

Hot waxing - hair removal

X 

 5

x

Human puppy-dog play

X 

x

Humiliation in private

x 

 4

x

x

x

Humiliation in public

x 

x

x

Hypnotism

X 

x

Ice cubes

X 

4 

x

x

Infantilism (baby play) – As punishment, MAYBE

X 

x

x

Initiation rites

X 

x

x

Injections

X 

x

Interrogations

X 

x

Kidnapping

X 

x

Kneeling

X

3 

x

Knife play (no blood)

X 

x

Leather restraints

X 

x

Leather (wearing)

X 

x

x

Lecturing for misbehaviors

X 

X

Lingerie (wearing)

X 

 5

x

Manacles & Irons

X 

x

Manicures – giving – N/A

Manicures – receiving – N/A

Mantra and meditation

X 

x

Yes

No

Rate

Never

No   Desire

Forced

Maybe

Yes

Fetish Need

Massage - giving

X 

3 

x

Massage - receiving

X 

 3

x

Masturbation

X 

 5

x

x

Medical scenes

X 

x

Milking (made to produce breast milk)

X 

x

Modeling for erotic photos

X 

x

Mummification - elastic wrap

X 

x

Mummification - saran wrap

X 

x

Name change

X

X

Nipple clamps

 X

5 

x

Nipple Piercing

X 

X

Nipple Play - Pulls, Tugs, Twists

X 

5 

x

x

x

Orgasm control

X 

5 

x

x

Orgasm denial

X 

x

x

Outdoor scenes

 X

4 

x

x

Pain - mild

X 

 5

x

x

Pain - severe

X 

 4

x

x

Pearl shower (cum on face)

X 

X

Pedicures & Foot massages (giving)

X 

x

Pedicures & Foot massages (resaving)

X 

x

Personality modification

X 

x

Phone sex

X 

x

Piercing (perm)

X 

x

Piercing (temp)

X 

x

Pony play

X 

x

Prison scenes

X 

x

Prostitution, real or fantasy

X 

x

Punishment scene

X 

x

x

Pussy whipping

X 

x

Pussy worship

X 

x

Riding crops

X 

3 

x

Riding the horse (crotch torture)

 X

x

Rimming (oral/anal play) - receiving

X 

x

Rimming (oral/anal play) - giving

X 

x

Rituals

X 

x

Religious scenes

X 

x

Role-playing

X 

x

Rope bondage

X 

3 

x

Rope Bondage - Intricate (Japanese)

 X

X

Rubber/late clothing (wearing)

X 

x

Scarification (cutting, making scars)

X 

x

Scat (brown showers)

X 

X