Control
me, Teach me, Guide me, Hold me, Lead me, Mold me, Use me, Spank me, Love
me, Instruct me, Corrupt me.
Oh
hell, just pull me over your knee and spank me until my bottom is black &
blue.
I am a woman who really wants/needs to be
spanked on a regular basis. I have been interested
in spanking since a
very young age, explored/read more about it in college, and started
participating in my early teens. I actually cannot remember when I wasn't
into spanking. At this point I have been spanked for around 35 years and
it is something I really enjoy. I enjoy anything from fun/erotic type of
spankings to hard no-nonsense disciple. Punishment spankings arent
enjoyable, but a necessary evil that one needs to grow, learn.
I also love to laugh and joke around. I
have been known to be sarcastic most times. Humor is my best friend, but I
do know when to be serious as well. I am, at first glance, a very
aggressive woman who is merely looking for that certain someone who knows
how to handle me. A strong willed man who is secure in his dominate roll.
I want a man who is into spanking as much as I am. He loves giving them as
much as I enjoy getting them. A man knows how to make me weak in the knees
just by using his stern voice. He knows how to put those fear butterflies
in my stomach, even over the phone. I want someone who enjoys putting me
in the corner, before or after a spanking. A man who enjoys watching me
squirm while I try to sit down on my very sore bottom in public. Someone
who will lean over and whisper in my ear while we are in public that I
have a spanking coming later and watch me blush. Imagination is welcome
and a plus. Someone who can keep me in line, but will let me be me, care
for me, protect me, guide me, be my friend and love me. Someone who knows
that gentleness is nice too. This person MUST also have a sense of humor.
I enjoy laughing and having a good time. Someone who has a softer side. A
man who likes to cuddle, hug and just enjoy each others company.
Yes, I do love being called baby or baby
girl and having someone to call daddy, but I am not into the whole
daddy/baby girl or lil girl thing. I don't talk, dress or act like a baby.
My dad died before I was born, so I never had that relationship. I was
never anyone's baby girl or princess (Yes, I
know, I have daddy issues). I want someone who will protect me, care for
me, guide me and love me.
My Hard Limits:
Golden
Showers
Scat
(Shit Play)
Children
Animals
Piercing/Needle Play
Blood Play
Dead People
Single Tail Whips
Ass to Mouth
Facials
My Soft Limits:
Floggers
Canes
What Turns Me Off:
Being called a "whore".
Someone who isn't into giving spankings, but say they are only to
get laid.
Someone who thinks just because I am a sub, I will automatically
submit to him.
Someone who tries to force me to submit to them before I even got a
chance to know them and trust them.
I am not into poly. Do not want to join any family.
I am not into married or attached men. I have never learned to share.
I am not into switches and males subs. Huge turn off for me.
I feel that submission is a gift, not an
automatic thing nor an assumption. It comes from the heart, with time.
At this point in my
life I am looking for a long term relationship, one that could last a
lifetime. I would like him to be funny, intelligent, friendly, loyal and
honest. Someone strong enough mentally who wont let me push them away.
Someone who easily forgives mistakes and blunders, after correcting them.
Someone who can handle me. Someone who loves to touch; loves to show his
affection. Likes to cuddle and hug. Someone who can push my limits.
How's that for telling
you what I want?
~baby
