Hello there! Since you made it to this page, seems like you are wishing to know this "bare" a little better. I guess I'll start from the beginning.

I was born a New Years Baby on Jan. 4th. And I am 34 years old. I have green eyes, brown hair and stand 4'10.  Everyone gives me a hard time and says I was born to close to Christmas to celebrate my birthday. I have lived in Virginia all my life.

I am a true submissive by heart and nature, in the BDSM lifestyle. One who believes and feels that you only get as much out of a relationship as you allow yourself to give to one. Regardless of what form of a relationship you have with someone, always be all that you can be. I believe in giving and serving with an open heart. Submission is not something you take from someone, but something that one gives to you with an oneness and willing heart. I am very thankful for finding the friends that I have along this path of life, for there are some that you don't see as friends but feel that as family. For they haven't just helped me learn who I am and what I need to be for myself, but they give a new meaning to the word soul searching.

I was born in Charlottesville home of Dave Matthews Band) and have lived at the foothills of Skyland Drive ever since. I was raised by my mom and grandmother, because my father died when I was just 8 months old. They say September is a month to remember, but the only memories I have is that God needed him worse than I did it seemed.

I am the mother of 3 daughters, 3 dogs, and a cat. Come this December I shall be a grandmother as well. It isn't easy having teenagers in the house. Whoever said it got easier as they got older...lied. The only thing that changes is situations that they are forced to face as teenagers.

I  work out of my home with my own business of Beanville Web Design. Its nice in being able to work from my home where I can be with my family and do not only what is my business but as well as being very much my hobby. 

 And the "PlayPen" becomes a foot stomping, hell raising, party place. Here I get to chat and see some of my friends. And may I say some of them are pretty wild. For those who have irc, you can usually find me in #BDSM^Virginia or #BDSM-Virginia

I not only enjoy chatting but I enjoy doing ceramics. It is rather nice being able to grab a paint brush, get some paints and a project and just escape into another world and watch as you paint and make something come to life. Talking about a great stress reliever that is one.

Some important things to me

To not worry as much about making friends as it is to be a friend. To love more than be loved. To not only be a good mother to my girls but to be there friend as well. And to live my life to the fullest because I only will get to visit this world once.


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This page was updated August 12 2000