The Husband Meter

My Husband Is being Wonderful , Excellent, Good, Okay, So-So, Bad, Awful today.

This Husband Meter is set up for my husband, who is like most husbands, tells me that he doesn't understand me. He doesn't understand why (or know when), I am upset with him. This is set up so that he knows day from day how I feel and why. If this makes you laugh and think about your own husband...feel free to copy it for your own pleasure or to make your own. It is just here for my husband to be educated a bit. If that is at all possible, then again perhaps he won't get this obvious hint!

Examples of each term:

Each term indicates his behaviour and my mood of the day. Okay are things that he should do each day. It eaither goes up or down from there. Sometimes things can cancel out though...if he buys me flowers but because he forgot an event...it equals only a Bad because the bad terms weigh more than the good.

Wonderful:

1. When he surprises me with something from his own heart, that is very romantic, and makes me feel like I did when we first started going out. Pure Love.
2. When he cleans the whole house (without being asked) all by himself.
3. When he takes care of Paige and allows me to have a break. Possibley even going out with my friends.
4. When he gets me a gift that is wonderful (without any hints).

Excellent:

1. When he cleans a couple rooms of the house. (without any hints).
2. When he takes us somewhere that I have been wanting to go to.
3. When he buys me flowers.
4. When he chages Owen, or takes Paige to the potty (without me asking him to).

Good:

1. When he cleans anything (with or without my hinting).
2. When he shaves the dog, and washes all of the animals.
3. When he makes me dinner. (Semi Romantic)
4. When he picks me a flower on his way home from work.

Okay:

1. When he does something I ask him to do.
2. When he pays a lot of attention to the children.
3. When he thinks of us while at work, or school.
4. When he remembers something that I told him to remember.

So-So:

1. When he forgets to say bye or hello to the children and I.
2. When he is late.
3. When he doesn't pay attention when I am talking (Or falls asleep).
4. When he forgets to feed the pets, or do the cat litter.

Bad:

1. When he hasn't done the garbage for weeks.
2. When he looses his temper.
3. When he plays games, or reads when he should be spending time with children and I.
4. When he puts off doing something (That usually results in catastrophe).

Awful:

1. When he makes me cry (even if I am during the week of emotional unstableness, he should understand my needs and how to treat me).
2. When he does something unspeakable.
3. When he embarresses me in front of people.
4. When he forgets something important that I had reminded him of many times, or a special event.

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