Message: I moved to canada to begin a relationship with nick askounis I am 4 months pregnant and he broke up with me a month ago he did not want me to have the baby but I just could not go through with an abortion he wont be supportive towards me at all and I feel so alone. This man was my best friend and now he hates me he wont talk to me and says he will deal with the baby when it comes he knows I moved here to be with him so I dont have many friends here and he became my family for the past 1yr 1/2. I keep trying to talk to him but he gets so angry and then called the police & said I was harassing him. How can he be so cruel? I thought he was a kind man I did not get pregnant myself its like his compassion his care for me even as a person has completely gone... He says he feels hate for me and to leave him alone.. But it hurts I was a part of his family and friends when I moved up here I started my life over and that life was intertwined with his and that was what he wanted when I first moved here. I am so hurt i cry all the time I wonder if he met someone else is this why he is being so mean? I know sometimes things dont work out people fall out of love with each other but I am not forcing him to be with me or to marry me which of coarse my heart would want but I know you cant make someone love you if they dont anymore I just need his support as a friend at least through this I moved my life for him upon his request but to leave me alone to deal with such a major life altering situation seems completely unfair and to tell me he'll deal with the child when he is born..but not until then and that we will go through lawyers ... I was so ggod to nick I was loyal supportive loving the only issue we ever had was he always wanted to be with the guys basically he felt when I moved I changed his lifestyle too much he wanted the relationship as a convience not realizing there is some responsibility when you have a relationship you are not single anymore and what you did before like hanging out with the guys all the time until 4 in the morning is not always apprpriate. He felt I stole too much of his freedom and I took it as he did not love me and now I am beginning to wonder if he ever loved me for now he dipises me it seems we were very close spiritually mentally we could talk about anything so I find this so hard to accept how he has been so unloving and not supportive towards me and the more he is cruel the more I feel crazy and the more I feel crazy the more I try to desperatley reach out to him I show up at his house beg him to talk to me and then he says I am crazy and he wants to be left alone and he does not care and he will deal with the baby when he is born ... but I need nick to be here now I need his support ..he was my best friend and my love and I did not get pregnant alone .. I just want peace between us I dont want him to hate me I told him I would consider giving the child up for adoption there are a lot of people who cant have kids I just did not want to abort. But he does not want to give the child up for adoption.. PLease if you could pray for me and nick I would very much appreciate it God bless you
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Father, You alone are God and there is no one else like You. The earth is Yours and everything in it, the World and all who live in it. Let Your mighty hand of grace and mercy be extended to teenagers everywhere.
Lord I pray that you would speak to all teens, and give them a clear vision of your purpose for their life. Guard them from those things that might distract them or hold them back from their destiny with You. Remind them to put on the full armor of God and empower them to stand firm against the temptations of this day. Cause all teens to be godly examples to others in their speech, in love and in purity. Bless them with joy and fill them with your Holy Spirit, that they might fight the good fight of faith, and honor You in all that they do. I pray in Jesus mighty name, Amen!
"Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity." 1Timothy 4:12 (NIV)
"But you, man of God, flee from all this, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, endurance and gentleness. Fight the good fight of the faith." 1Timothy 6:11-12 (NIV)
"For the eyes of the LORD range throughout the earth to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to him." 2Chronicles 16:9 (NIV)
"Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or discouraged... for there is a greater power with us than with him." 2Chronicles 32:7 (NIV) PRAYER REQUESTS
Nicole
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