Well where do i start lets see....ok after 1 miscarriage and 5 years latter of ttc we hit the jackpot!!! i found out that i was pregnant and after i lost my first was a little scared but deep down i knew that god wouldn't take this one from me.
so at 35 weeks i get up on a sunday morning and ready to go to church and my baby shower later that day . I was just towling off when i felt this strange pain in my side so i got dress thinking it was just a pulled muscle and then the next thing i knew i was on my knees for the pain so was bad but just on my one side so i crawl to the phone and call my doctor and tell her whats happing. she tells me to meet her at the hospitial so i get there before her they test me for kidney stones and when i stood up they seen i was very prego and tell me that i am in labour i tell them NO i am NOT they say i don't know what i am talking about re: first baby they call an amblance to take me to the maturnity hosp. I get there still in pain and i finally get sick and they rush me to delivery all the while i keep telling them i am NOT in labour! so after an internal ,they do realise that i am not in labour (HORRAY) so they check the baby out and he is fine so they come back and tell me i have kidney stones .... but at the other hospitial they said no for kidney stones the test was negative to make this short as i can they do an ultrasound after two days of not passing them and discover that i have 3 stones in my gallbladder and send me up to my room when the doctor (Hospitial one) comes to see me i am not worry he just going to tell me that i have gallstones ...boy was i wrong ! he sits beside me and i am all alone dh is at work he tells me that he is sorry that they had found a 4cm tumor on my adreinal gland! i freak and ask him so what does this mean ? he said that they have a specialist coming in to see me and that if the tumor is cancer i will have 6 months to live! i was in shock ! keeping this to my self until i talked with dh that night my MIL came to see me that afternoon with terriable news she just seen her doctor and was told she has two to six weeks to live she had brain cancer! i hugged her and we cried together she told me that she was going to see her first grandchild being born so when dh got there and he was so devastated by his moms news i couldn't tell him what happend to me . then the specialist showed up to examine me when he was there so not only did i have to tell him the spec.found another tumor ! this one on my thyroid ! so to make a longer story short they were leaving me have my baby and then i was allowed two weeks home before i was to have surgery to remove the tumors and my gallbladder well MIL died three weeks later and ds wasn't born until three weeks after that and needless to say it wasn't cancer for i am still here. first of all i was three weeks pass due for him and he never droped or my cervix never soften so i went in on a wed morning and they inserted this gel in my cervix 6 hours apart to soften it and thursday morning they took me down and put me on the drip at 11am by 12 noon they broke my water by 1 pm the contractions were one on top of each other by 3pm i was exausted and was only dialated 2 cm so i took the eppie by 6 pm i was up to 3.5 cm at 6:30 pm they lost his heart beat at 6:45 pm he was born via a c-section a healthy boy weighed in at 9 lbs 12 oz Thomas Walter James Bond our dream became our life.
ok so three years after Thomas two weeks before christmas last year i found out that i was expecting again ! we were so excited well on christmas morning i got morning sicknes so bad and dh said it was the little one saying merry christmas ...lol well this was an uneventful pregancy besides the morning sickness everything was great i knew deep down that i was going to have a section with this one again even though we the doc and i wanted to go natural so at 40 weeks nothing she didn't drop cervix never soften same as before so i didn't want to end up in the same mess as before so we scheduled a section three days later for august 5 th so that morning we droped thomas off at my moms and kissed him and went off to have his sister at 8 am i walked into the OR sat on the operating table and had the spinal put in took 25 minutes to get it in and about 25 tries with different size needles .. well after that the doc came in and they started to operate we could hear everything then all of a sudden she hollars i have a bleeder then they are rushing around then this guy gets up and walks over to my iv and hooks up another bag and opens them wide open and starts squeezing the bags and i look up at dh and say that we are in trouble and he looks at me the man at the iv and says everything is ok ....ya right who are you trying to kid here ... well the doctor yells for a stool to stand on she is slipping on my blood thats on the floor ! then next she is yelling for more funnel pressure ,,and yells this over and over again then she yells for the forcepts as she is trying this she yells for the trauma team they are being paiged i am so scared by now she puts the forcepts in and as she starts to pull the baby head slips out of them and they go flying out of me and they hit the other doctor in the head ! not realising this she puts them back in and around the babys head and pulls again this time she comes out and she doesn't cry i hold my breath listing for it they tell me she a girl but i still hear nothing they tell me she is ok just a quiet baby. they stop the bleeding and fix me up and she told me that i lost 3 litres of blood and they put me on pennicillin for she was so sure that i would end up with infection because of the forcepts hitting that other doctor ...but al in all i was very lucky ..at 8:56 am Madeline Audrey Jacqueline Bond was here our dream ..she weighed 8 lbs 12 oz ...our dream family is now complete.
Patricia
