Subject: Why can’t men call when they are going to be late
and/or not show up?
As someone who has a degree in Psychology and wants to go back and
get my masters, I am
always interested in certain innate behaviors. The one that has
to be the most mystifying is this –
Men, why can’t you pick up a phone and call when you are going to be
late and/ or not show up
at all? Please, on behalf of the rest of the women in this world,
help us understand. Is it because
you feel we are trying to control you, and/or you would feel whipped
telling your buddies you
need to make a phone call so that someone who cares about you doesn't
worry, and/or it seems
to much like a commitment?
While I won't speak for all women, because I know there are several
out there that won't fall into
this category….the only “c” word that this has to do with is “CONCERN”!!!!
Are you lying in a
ditch, an emergency room? We are not necessarily thinking that
you are with someone else or
doing something you don’t want us to know about. We are genuinely
concerned about your well
being. My ex-husband’s reason for not calling used to be “well,
by the time I think of it, I know
you are already pissed…and we all know that there is no such thing
as relatively pissed. So, I
didn't call cause I didn't want you to make me feel guilty and ruin
my night.” Notice he is my
EX-husband.
To the person who is the reason for me writing this rant, my concern
comes not from the fact you
didn't come over and see me, but that you didn't come by and pick up
the tape I made of
Smackdown and Tough Enough. So, an email would be nice just letting
me know you are
okay.
Guys, please help me out with this….I think this would make an excellent
Masters Thesis. And
women, please e-mail in your comments, just so that you-know-who doesn't
think that I am the
biggest bitch to walk the planet.
Anonymous
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