![]() Tips on Coping: Number One: Probably there is someone out there that is hurting much more than you... go and be strong for them. Number Two: Never be afraid to cry. That is your God given right and no one will think less of you. Number Three: Help out the family of the deceased. They will need you right now. Number Four: If someone is blaming themselves for the deaths than confort them as much as possible and NEVER think that it was their fault because that blackens your heart. Number Five: If you feel so strongly and can't get the thought of the victim out of your head, do something in loving memory of him... build a memorial... create a scrapebook... build a website where people can leave messages on the deceased... plant a tree.... do a project. Anything to show how much you love them and that you will always remember them. |