Sample Discussions
Satire & Accountability
Perceptions of evil in Politics
Reclaiming Offensive Terminology
Protests
Defense of Marriage
MTV, music & conformity
Death Penalty
Satire & Accountability
(Alan) its a spoof of professional wrestling the sportscaster guys generally
do a couple of advertisements for one silly product or another for
example, "when you think of a white, viscous substance, think of x-brand of
mayonnaise" this week they did an ad for black shoe polish and the guy
made some comment about the fact that washington state, where the show
supposedly took place, had the highest number of black impersonators in the
country, as part of the ad this may or may not be true, thats not the
point the point is that my friend was VERY offended by this comment
because it was a reference to black impersonators who painted their faces
with shoe polish and then attacked black people a veiled lynching
reference basically does she have the right to get mad at this
comment, which was thoughtless, but used for the purpose of comedy? can
he say it if he doesn't think it? another friend seemed to think that
the setting of the show, in "locust county washington," provoked him to say
something like that, and it is unlikely that he thinks that way the fact
is, there's a good chance he didn't really understand the reference he was
making but my friend who was offended said that you can't bring something
out of someone if it isn't already there why should a horrible thing be
on his mind in the first place for it to come out in improv comedy? my
friend was really offended and the next night she was arguing with another
friend who said that she should be able to see it for its humor and put the
racial connotations behind her as an thing of the past
(Kat) If I heard the shoe polish commercial my thoughts would run along the lines of:
1. I don't get it.
2. Probably a reference to the comedians of old (black and white) who wore
the stereotypical shoe polish "black face" so you could tell they were
supposed to be black.
3. Probably also commentary on the state of mind/prejudices of the character
speaking, a wrestling sportscaster who is probably "white trash" and
stereotypically racist. The audience is supposed to laugh at his prejudices
because he is uneducated and has a job that is not respectable.
4. I still don't get it.
Personally, I would not have made the connection to lynching. I have never
heard of anyone dressing up to look like they're black so they could lynch
black people. I wouldn't be surprised if it were true, just I have never
heard of it myself. So I wouldn't have been insulted, but neither would I
have been amused, because I don't get the joke.... And I absolutely believe
that characters in books/plays/movies etc. should be able to say just about
anything. They aren't real people and their opinions are not at all
necessarily the opinions of the author. I'm a firm believer in satire.
Also, "the bad guys" aren't censored like that .. that's how you make the
audience perceive someone as villainous, you have the villain do and say
things that are offensive.
But if it was, in fact, a straight-up joke about lynching, that's pretty
inappropriate.
Perceptions of Evil in Politics
(Dan) i just worry
that he [Gore] won't do a good job kicking bush's ass.
(Shann) I know its frigtening how many people in this country are supporters of pure irrefutable evil, and worse, they think they're doing the right thing. I guess that's how they feel about us, but if it were that simple they wouldn't be so freverent. They're psychotic, not logical, caring beings with a different opinion. thats why they're so unstopable and life just had to be the only place that evil can triump over good.
(Kat) Aren't you saying, I know that they're evil because they say that we're
evil? Your characterization of them as "psychotic" and "supporters of pure
irrefutable evil" sounds pretty "fervent" to me.
I think they're *wrong*, but I don't think it's so hard to understand the
state of mind of a person struggling to uphold the status quo or defending
convictions of blind faith.
(Shann) thats the problem, they're doing anything and everything to uphold their blind faith, whereas I'm thinking and overcoming being raised Catholic. not all conservatives are that way, many are just hypocrites trying to get re-elected, and I'm sure many Iowa farm families really do want to save the souls of those they pray for. Even NRA has gun safety programs, its the rabid belives thgat worry me. true, they're a vocal minority that (I hope) doesn't represent the majority of people who vote/belive in a similar fashion (same "feminists" who belive all het sex is rape). they're examples set up to worry us. But people who murder abortion doctors, who would rather kill their kids than admit they're gay, the "greaseman" who wants to drag blacks behind pick-up-trucks for making music he doesn't like (I don't consider it a joke considering his comments after the MLK assasination) these are not not well thought out ideas with pseudo-science behind them. they're nuts. just as nuts as the !left wings nuts the sane right-wingers equate us with. most of us do just have different opinions on what is moral, I was refering to the psychos with the cash to buy legislation. extream right is more bin vogue than extream left, people even have problems with "pc" terminology for example. And I at least don't belive in killing or brain washing or even silencing them. I just want their money used for something I belive in. sure its hypocritical, and sure my only justification is that at least I'm right, but I would be willing to give all money from both extreams to the moderates and let them waffle between each sane wing view point. I don't want them thinking that the right wing crazies are any more sane the leftist ones just because their view point is more often portrayed as moral because they have the funding and church support.
Reclaiming Offensive Terminology
(Dan) how about use of the word "queer." it's become a big deal
at Penn because the LGBA changed its name to Queer Student Association.
There was a huge debate on the LGBA listserv when all the people opposed
(including me) were ignored as "passe" and "secretly homophobic." Then, this
bisexual girl wrote in saying that she thought it was terrible and that she
would no longer involve herself with the organization. 5 MINUTES LATER, we
get an email from an aol account that's all like "you bunch of faggots and
queers! Now that i saw your banner, i know who to target!" The aol name was
SugarPixie. It was OBVIOUSLY the bi girl trying to make a point. anyone
with a brain could have figured that out. but instead, the QSA idiots decide
to make this big deal, calling campus security agencies about "hate-mail."
The next morning, the headline of the Daily Pennsylvanian is "Penn Gay Group
Listserv Receives Hate-Mail."
(Shann) I wouldn't use queer in fron of people that I didn't know were cool with
word. I'd use a different all encompasing term if there was a common, easily
said one (instead of les/bi/gay/trans)
(Katie) How about... um... pudding? Or borange? Cause then there'd be a word that
rhymes with orange. Yeah, borange. We could open up untold possibilities in
the poetic world...
Protests
(Shann) ...do protests help at all? should other people have to be hurt
to get the message out? are protests better than letter writing
campaignes?
(Lisa) Now, I know you don't think physically protesting does any
more than writing letters. And I know you have become more "neighborhood
rights" oriented after this imf thing. and I know you think that 1 person
can't make a difference.But, to risk sounding like a dumb college
student, whatever happened to protesting for fun, for the opportunity to
meet like-minded freaks?
(Gary)
Protesting for fun?is that what its come to?
Lemme just say the picture of those 'wasters'on the front of our papers in London standing on
a daubed statue of Winston Churchill made me want to grab their necks.
Like someone said..If it wasnt for Churchill and others like him those
ignorant people wouldnt have the freedom they enjoy today....Damn
these nebulous riots and long live the memory of the Great defenders
of liberty...
(Shann)My concern is people who protest to seem intelligent. Its
become a fad.
(Lisa) I didn't mean to sound frivoulous. but moral is a necessity.
Shann has given up before she begins.
(Kat) Yes, protests are "fun." There's a euphoria involved in meeting with large
groups of like-minded people in public spaces & reveling in your right to
inconvenience the general public enough that they'll notice you and your
cause. And I don't think that's bad.
I firmly believe that acts of civil disobedience are our responsibility as
US citizens. If you don't like the government, change it. There would have
been no civil rights legislation in the 60s if there had been no bus
boycotts or sit-ins or freedom rides or marches on Washington. I think that
the protests of the International Monetary Fund worked, to a large extent.
I didn't know the IMF or World Bank or World Trade Organization or anything
even existed before the protests in Seattle (and even then I didn't pay any
attention), but during the hype preceding the protests in Washington I went
online and visited the protestors' websites and the organizations' websites
and got myself INFORMED about the IMF's purpose & the protestors' reason for
protesting. And that is the real goal of taking it to the streets:
informing the public. Letter-writing campaigns don't do that. It remains
to be seen whether anything real will come of it; whether the IMF & World
Bank will actually reform. But the protestors made an issue of what was not
an issue before. And I say, that's great.
(Shann) was that the point of writing "fuck IMF" on GW property? Was
that the point of of defacing our streets, statues and residece halls
after being asked not to? what about those people who defaced DC
property? does disrupting traffic gain you support? What about the
anarchy symbols everywhere now? Where is the responsability to keep
wackos from destroying your message by hurting innocent people?
(Kat) There will always be "wackos" and delinquents looking for a cause they can
latch on to that will provide them the opportunity to air their own
destructive impulses. There is nothing organizations with a real message
can do about it but firmly denounce violence & destruction of property & try
to distance themselves from it. Which is what the IMF protest leaders
should have done, but they didn't. They tried to say, "our immediate group
members will be nonviolent, but we won't denounce any tactics anyone else
chooses to use," which was really very stupid of them. Because it made
those prone to using violent tactics feel accepted & the legitimate protest
groups upheld a reputation for holding violent protests, so its members were
also cast as "wackos." Very bad move on their part.
Defense of Marriage
(Kat) OK, I realise this isn't like me, but:
Every time an initiative comes up to legalize gay marriage, conservative
shout frantically and loudly that such a thing would destroy the institution
of marriage. There is only one reasonably cogent argument I've heard in
support of that position. If we go around screwing with the marriage laws,
how could we then turn around and tell would-be polygamists that they can
not marry multiple women because we see poligamy as a practice that is
oppresive, exploitative, and demeaning toward women? Now it is true that
this really has no bearing on gay-marriage legislation because as more
Muslims immigrate to the US it's going to become an issue of its own accord.
But the point is still valid: where can US law-makers draw a line between
two adults who want to grow old together & a harem full of young women who
feel they have nowhere else to turn? Are any laws preserving the current
understanding of marriage legitimate? Or would it be just fine if all
restrictions on who can marry whom were scrapped?
(Shann) this reminds me of this thing I read where some right winger is like,
"what next, allowing a brother and sister to marry because they're both consenting adults" and I was thinking, why the fuck not? Its sick to me, but the
only negative effects would be on them and their family so fuck them. And saying they shouldn't have kids is the gate way to forcibly sterilizing
physically/mentally challenged people and genetic-reprograming. I'm not sure why I think the latter is bad but the 90's "outer limits" series is very much
against it. Marriage is already cheap with vegas-quick weddings and instant divorce. Its far more sacred to those who have dedicated their lives to gaining
it with the one they love than hets who take it for granted. Anyway, I thought polygamy was ok in Utah w/ the Mormons there. If they really wanted to
defend marriage, they'd outlaw divorce so only people who really wanted to be together forever would do it. But that would be bad too, because you
could be stuck with worse than you deserve
(Lisa) The problem isn't polygamy, why shouldn't multiple marriages be made. The
problem is that these women feel forced in to the marriage. Even if he had
no other wives, I would find it a bad thing. And if a bunch of people all
want to be married to eachother, or if someone wants multiple partners and
they all consent too, well good for them
(Katie)About brothers and sisters getting married:
When two people related that closely want to get married, it's generally
*not* because they feel as though they want to grow old together, although
I'm sure modern television could manage to evoke empathy in the American
public even for incest. The law chiefly exists to regulate people who cannot
recognize something gone wrong in themselves. If a brother and sister want to
get married, there is something psychologically wrong with them in that
situation, and therefore it doesn't make for a healthy marriage.
So. Those of you out there advocating gay marriage might want to use instead
the argument that the AMA "realized" that homosexuality is not a
psychological disease. ( Whereas incest certainly arises from conditions
prone to one. ) Now, given that the law is there to ensure on the other hand
that the people under it are given to constructing their own lives to as
great a fulfillment as possible ( so long as it's not because they can't
recognize something wrong with themselves ), the law is bound to allow gay
marriage. Of course society now doesn't realize that it's extraordinarily
homophobic, so society needs be legislated out of marrying itself.
Or something like that.
(Kat) See, but who are you to say that there's something "psychologically wrong"
with incest? Sure *I* think it's icky, but then again I consider all
sexuality pretty ugly and grotesque. But most people glorify heterosexual
sex. So realizing that society and I think so differently leads me the
conclusion that I'll never be able to reconcile my views with the majority &
that I don't want to. This means to me that there is no "right" or "wrong"
because every member of said majority feels as strongly about their opinions
as I do for mine. Which strikes me as the wrong lesson, probably because I
was raised American and Catholic and brought up to recognize several rights
and wrongs. Then again, these lessons in general morality are entirely too
mutually contradictory to be taken at face value ...
(Sharon) okay, you guys, a word or two from the (studying)
geneticist (& anthropologist)...
I actually don't know if incest is classified as
pathological, as Katie P. mentioned. As my
anthropology prof said, most of us have a "gut
reaction" of "eww!" and that's when to start
investigating why...
(This demo gets a much better response in person, but
I'll try it anyway...
As an example, think about kissing. No problem, right?
Well, not for the majority of Americans. Now imagine
your significant other spitting into an empty cup...
and then drinking it. EEEEWWW, disgusting, right? Now,
take a look at how illogical that is...)
I really don't see anything wrong with siblings
getting married, as long as they love one another (and
that's a different problem totally). (Maybe also this
is because I don't have siblings. I dunno.) Anyway,
the real problem with two people who have the same
parents marrying is the likely harm to any children
that the couple has... harmful recessive genes are
much more likely to be reinforced in the offspring.
These can produce anything from hemophilia to
retardation... look at the kings of England, hmm?
However, I don't know how to solve the problem -
marriage for only those couples who don't plan on
having children seems a little restrictive, and
"required genetic testing" of embryos seems like it
might not get done and a little Big Brother-ish. Maybe
genetic counseling and pushing the adoption angle?
(Katie)Welpers, if you consider it a contradiction, consider also the fact that
people whose problems get resolved don't regularly have sex with their
brothers. There's a natural reaction on biological, psychological, and
emotional levels against that. But there aren't those reactions ( necessarily ) in human beings with respect to homosexuality. And I don't think feelings
against incest are societally imposed, whereas a fear of homosexuality is.
Personally, I think it's all bullshit, too, but.
MTV, music & conformity
(Danny) anyways, i am in every way against MTV GENERATION, ALL POP GROUP
SENSATIONS!!!! i think it is all i am against, and hope it stops, and i put
all my extra time into stopping these shanadagens!!! i think the people that
watch TV are a bunch of controlled prgramed monkeys, that do ANYTHING IT
SAYS, along with the radio, which i also am against because i dont like being
told what music is "COOL" or "WITH IT" and that i should listen to it, simply
because some greasy money grubbing corporate official gets his pockets fuller
because i "CONFORM TO HIS STANDARDS"
The music i do listen to is punk rock. And i am not a punker, i am a
christian, but do not hold that against me. I listen to punk because it is
everything the radio and MTV ISNT. it questions everything holy in the music
industry and there greedy ways. it goes against the standards of all those
preppy ass trendy sheep, and it insults them in everyway possible.
(Dan) Punk music doesn't question ANYthing holy in the music industry. Punk music
sells a lot of records. And most of it doesn't even sound very good. The
point of punk music (to strip down a self-indulgent rock n' roll culture to
its bare essentials and then amplify those bare essentials) is no longer
relevant. In the 70s, it was necessary. In the early 90s, it was a pleasant
suggestion that 80s pop music stop. But now that pop music is just as bad as
it was in the late 80s, are we going to resort to the SAME method of
purification, or are we going to transend rock n' roll and form something
better? If we keep curing pop music with punk music, we will end up in a
rather stagnant "Debbie Gibson/Nirvana/Green Day/Alanis/Britney Spears" cycle
that will never end. I think the potential punk musicians of the future
should trade in their guitars for synthesizers, their basses for cellos, and
their drums for turntables. Let's create NEW stagnant cycles to get trapped
in. Trip hop cycles and classical fusion cycles and electric blues cycles
(Gabe) I still believe my MTV generation was a lot better than the current MTV
Generation. Back in the days, man I'm an old fart, when MTV actually did
show music videos, it was a format for some really artistic people to get
thier stuff seen and heard which would otherwise be ignored by the radio
stations and music industry altogether. Now days MTV is nothing more than a
corporate tool that rarely shows any videos, due to the latest
realworlroadrulestrlliveundressedspringbreakmtvbeachcrapuponcrap marathons,
but what little music videos they do show are only by so called "artists"
that are the current pop sensation on mainstream radio. The only way I can
get my fix of any artistic music videos now days is on late night cable
access shows because I'm not lucky enough to get M2. "I want my MTV" the
one I used to know with outrageous VJs, cool animated logo spots, and music
videos. Yes, really, music on MTV! What a concept.
Oh what the hell do I know, I'm just an old fart who still watches his
collection of old videos from 120 Minutes.
Death Penalty
(Kat)did you all look at the texas criminal justice dept link I sent earlier?
wasn't that disgusting? they had a whole page devoted to what people asked
for at their last meal. crass and shameful. and you look at when they were
first incarcerated and there are so many who were put in jail at 18, 19 ..
or that's when they were given the death penalty in the first place!
granted you have to do something pretty bad to get on death row (unless they
make a mistake - which never happens of course) but to condemn someone to
death straight out of high school is ridiculous.
and then there are all those republican types who are anti-abortion and
pro-death penalty. you can't be pro-life and support the death penalty.
that's just stupid.
(Danny)Hey everyone, i know i havent said much, but i have to disagree with the
whole republican thing about how they can be ants-abortion but for the death
sentence. Those are two entirely different subjects, and the when using the
term death in both of those examples have to be used in a different context.
First of all if you are pro-life, and you support the death sentence, its
because someone on death row COMMITED A HANOUS CRIME!!! What did an innocent
fetus do to deserve a death sentence. Abortion is killing out of ignorance
and didnt stand trial for anything, a convicted felon recieved his chance,
and failed as a human, and was tried before a jury of his peers, and IS A
PUNISHMENT. ABORTION AND PUNISHMENT ARE TWO ENTIRELY DIFFERENT THINGS. An
unborn baby didnt commit any crime, where as someone on death row did!
sorry to sound so rude and blunt, but trying compare and contrast abortion
over the death sentence, and rallying on the death sentence side saying its
wrong, and just saying that killing innocent babies saying its ok, just seems
unethical.
about the
kids that were sentenced in texas, when you said how it was wrong to be
condemed to death straight out of high school. I can think of a senerio, even
better get this; GETTING CONDEMED TO DEATH BEFORE EVEN LIVING!!!!! At least
they got there chance!!!
(Alan)most people who are pro-choice are
not "abortions for everyone!!" people i personally believe a child
should not be born into a hostile environment and have to face a life that
is not worth living while there are other options (adoption, thinking
about what you do BEFORE you do it, etc.) sometimes abortion is clearly the
best choice it should be thought of as saving a life instead of
ruining one but compare a life in prison, getting anally raped by big
guys and whomped by guards 24-7 to dying quickly in an electric chair
why should a convicted criminal be put out of his/her misery while an
innocent child is forced to face a life of failure and dispair, and possibly
death in the electric chair somewhere down the line? i think the real
issue is human rights, and whether someone who has committed a crime should
be deprived of his right to live a comfortable life and whether a child
should be forced into a world that will not accept him do you believe
that death should be used to save someone from misery? and if so, who
deserves it more, and innocent child or a cold blooded killer? i think
people who are pro-life and support the death penalty have some twisted view
of what it means to live in a hostile world (pampered republicans whose
mommy and daddy bought them their social status ::cough GWBush cough::)
think about that
(Dan)yey kat.
yeah so the death penalty makes no fiscal sense. it costs taxpayers more to
go through the legislation to kill someone than it does to keep them in jail
without parole for the rest of their lives (arguably a worse punishment).
(Kat)Thing about the death penalty is, it's final and complete and there's no
going back & saying "We're sorry, Copernicus, we realize now that you were
right & we were wrong." If the justice system in S. Africa had just
executed Nelson Mandela instead of sentencing him to the majority of his
life in prison, history would've played out a lot differently.
But even leaving political prisoners aside (which I don't think we should
do, by the way; even though the US doesn't have very many now you have to
look out for your freedoms) it's a HUGE responsibility to put on the jury &
judge & all of us as Americans. As Shann's oft-quoted Tom Tomorrow
(loosely) put it, if even one innocent has been killed, we are all guilty of
murder. I believe that. Whatever it says in the books about killing
criminals, if we kill innocents - and we do; it is statistically ridiculous
to assert that all convicted criminals that have been executed really
commited the crime of which they were accused - that's murder. I am
*extremely* wary of giving the government the right to kill. It's just not
ok.