Will I Ever Love Again?
So many times I have given my heart only to have it stepped on and thrown back in my face. Can I ever trust anyone again? This is a question asked by many.
To never trust is to not live. So should we take a chance on never finding that special person to whom we can truely trust with our feelings, heart and soul? We would truely cheat ourselves of much beauty and happiness if we were to do this.
People come into our lives for a reason. We may really love that person but then they leave. They come into our lives for their lesson or our own. When the lesson is finished then they move on. We cannot allow this to kill the love we have inside. We must move on to the next.
People, give love a chance and do not cheat yourself out of possible happiness. I f a relationship ends then accept it and move on to the next. To not do so is hurting yourself.
We tend to think it must be something we did or did not do. But this is not always the fact. Sometimes it is just that they have gotten the lesson and are moving on. So do not lock yourself away and cheat yourself of the one special person that may be on the way to you.
For all of us there is one special person to share our live with and walk hand in hand through the good times and the bad. The one that will stay with us and walk beside us as our friend, lover, helpmate and companion through the rest of our lives. Till you meet them you must learn to go on.
It seems to me that people confuse sex with love. They are two different things. Sex is just a physical act. Love is a very special feeling that lasts through all things.. You can have sex without love and it can be great. But with love sex can be even better. Love can make everything better. Do not confuse the two.
Love is accepting the bad with the good. We all have our bad points as well as our good points . And if you can not accept all of a person then you do not belong with them. It does not mean you have to like thier bad points just you have to be able to accept them along with the good points. None of us are perfect.
You may find that the one you finally fall in love with...that one special person that is the one you are to share your life with---may not fit your idea of what you thought you wanted. They may be so different than anyone you have ever associated with before on this level. But stop and think about the others...where are they now? Did they seem to flow with you or off on another path? None of us know what is best for us. So stay open to all possibilities. And above all do not cut yourself off.
I wish for all of you the perfect love to walk beside you and share your life with. It is all up to you.
