The
Breakdown: It's
not always bad. Peer pressure usually has a negative connotation
attatched to it. It's true that it might lead someone to
doing something they normally wouldn't, and shouldn't do,
but there are also positive ends of the spectrum.
You don't
even have to try to find things on the negative aspects of
peer pressure, but what about the good things? The wonderful
things? The things that make the world a better place to live
in? For example, if Donny is going to get in a fight with James,
but Lola, Donny's girlfriend, asks Donny not to and gives him
reasons, Donny might decide to forget about the possible altercation
and go on with his life. Lola intervened without actually putting
a gun to Donny's head and making him do something. Or maybe
community service. Someone might want to feel welcome somewhere,
try to fit in, so they do things for their community to help
out and meet people at the same time. If a group of friends
do something, you wouldn't want to feel left out. Like if the
go to a shelter to feed the homeless, and it's the whole clique
excluding you, it wouldn't feel right, so you go to be with
them. Perhaps it's the wrong reasons for doing so, but who
knows if the sentiment might change after a while.
Sex, drugs
and alcohol too. Those usually go hand in hand with peer pressure,
but every one fails to mention that sometimes our friends are
the reasons why we don't. You wouldn't want to be the only
one, and if you notice, the more and more you do that, you
being hanging around a different crowd and slowly drift away
from your original group. They remain sober while you don't.
You might realize after a while that it isn't for you and go
back.