Fibromyalgia (FMS) is a very difficult
disease/syndrome to grasp. There are so many
different aspects of it. I have been doing a
lot of research & reading since I have been
diagnosed (February 2000) with FMS. This
page is just to give you an understanding of
what FMS is according to my research. This
is NOT an "official" FMS page! FMS
is a disease but because it is unknown what
causes it, it is
called a syndrome. This is because there are
so many
different sets of signs & symptoms that occur
together. The word syndrome throws people
because they think it isn't a "real disease"
or
problem if it is called a syndrome. Think
about this, rheumatoid arthritis & lupus are
also called syndromes. But everyone knows
the problems involved with them -- with FMS
there just isn't as much knowledge or data
available. In the Fibromyalgia Relief Book
by Miryam Ehrlich Williamson she states that
in 1993 two studies were done that measured
the quality of life of women with FMS against
that of women with rheumatoid arthritis,
osteoarthristis, chronic obstructive
pulmonary disease, insulin-dependent
diabetes, and lupus. In almost every
category, women with FMS scored lower than
those with the other chronic diseases (you
can find this on page 8 of her book). So
you can see that those with FMS have to
really fight to keep up their quality of
life. This is NOT to make light of other
diseases/sydromes ~ they are all just as difficult.
I dedicate this page to my cousin, who does not have
FMS but has lupus & rheumatioid arthritis. I have
learned a lot from this wonderful lady. She has had
many, many problems over the years but she is always
cheerful & upbeat. She is an inspiration to
everyone!
There are MANY problems
involved with FMS. Studies are still being
done to try & determine what causes FMS and
why there are so many different problems
involved with it. Some studies are looking
at the following:
1) Sleep disorders
that
prevents the body from regulating itself
correctly 2) the muscles lack sufficient
oxygen or
are unable to use oxygen as fuel 3)
low
levels
of seratonin (chemical that moderates
pain)
4) high levels of substance P (a pain
transmitter) in the spinal fluid.
Due to the many different symptoms & the fact
that everyone has different problems this
makes FMS hard for people to "believe" or
grasp. Fibromyalgia is called the "Invisible
disease" because others are unable to see all
the pain you are in.
To be diagnosed with FMS you usually must
have widespread musculoskeletal pain in all
four quadrants of the body for at least three
months. You must also have problems with at
least eleven of the eighteen specific tender
points.
Products that may help to
cope/relieve pain:
Please note I do not endorse any of these
items, I don't know that they will work, and
with FMS different things work for different
people. Personally I have scoured the
internet, books & stores for things that may
help. I thought I would list some ideas here
to give people different things to think
about.
capsaicin cream
door handle grips
eggcrate or some type of mattress topper
electric blanket
foot bath
GOOD shoes
heating pad
magnets
massager
mat that you sit/lay on that
messages/heats
pill boxes
pillow rest
shoe insoles made for pain relief
sound spas or nature tapes
therabath parraffin heat therapy system
therapeutic pillows
vitamins
whirlpool or a small one that will sit in
your tub
writing grips
Things to explore that may help you
cope with FMS
Again, I do not endorse any particular
methods and I certainly have not tried them
all. This is a compiled list of
items/suggestions that I found during
research:
accupressure
acupuncture
aromatherapy
biofeedback
breathing -learning to take deep breathes
chiropractors
educate yourself on FMS
exercise
focusing
guided imagery
guaifenesin therapy
herbs
hypnotherapy
journaling
meditation
massage therapy
music therapy
nutrition
pet therapy
polarity therapy
physical therapy
reiki
reflexology
stretching
subliminal tapes
support groups (locally or online)
tai chi
talking with others who have FMS
Qi Gong/Chi Kung
walking meditation
water therapy
yoga
Things to help with household
chores:
*make sure you have a light-weight vacuum
*use a Swifter to keep on top of vinyl
floors
*purchase clothes that don't require
ironing
*compile a list of quick crock-pot recipes
you
can throw together on bad days
*keep some frozen dinners in the freezer that
can be thrown in the oven on extremely bad
days
*use paper plates & napkins! *S*
*use a reacher/grabber to get items down from
high shelves
*try to get two weeks worth of groceries when
you go shopping
*use the internet to search out information
on products you want to buy before you go to
the store - so you not standing in the store
trying to read labels or compare products
*shop online
*keep straws available for when your hands
hurt so bad it is hard to drink from
glasses
*If your hands hurt in the cold use oven
mitts while rearranging your freezer
Other Helpful Hints
*Keep pillows in the car for long trips
*If you love to read but chronic pain in your
hands prevents you from holding books get in
touch with your local library for the blind
see if you qualify to receive free access to
audio books
*Look into having a raised garden built if
you love to work with herbs/flowers/veggies
but can't bend down to do it any longer
check out online chatrooms for FMS
check out library books
locate a local support group
purchase books or videos
search out a FMS webring
see if any local hospitals have any pain
seminars
surf the net - do a fibromyalgia search
talk to your Dr, Physical Therapist &
rheumatologist
talk to others who have FMS
join e-mail lists about Fibromyalgia
If you have FMS -- good luck in finding
things that work for you. Keep in mind that
you are not alone, and others DO care. FMS
may not be curable today but.. someday it may
be and in the meantime we can look for ways
to ease the pain.
If you have a friend who has FMS - be
supportive! They need all the support they
can get as many people blow off their pain because they don't understand it. Sometimes they just need
someone to visit with to take their minds off
things. I am very lucky and have so many
friends/family/Dr who are supportive and are
always there for me. If it were not for
them~~~ I don't even want to think about it!
I have more people ask me "What can I do?"
Actually there usually isn't much they can do
but it sure is nice that they care enough to
ask!
A HUGE thank you to my family/friends/Dr's
for all they do, and being the supportive
people that they are! And a big thank you to
my online friends who answer my many
questions about FMS.
The book I learned the most from was
Fibromyalgia & Chronic Myofascial Pain
Syndrome: A Survival Manual by Devin J.
Starlanyl and Mary Ellen Copeland
A bonus to ordering books from Barnes & Noble
is they do not require you to put your credit
card number online. You fill out their
online order form and check to call in your
credit card number. After you send in the
order they will email you a 800 number to
call. They will already have all your
ordering information so all you have to do is
give them your order number (which will be on
the email you receive from them) and your
credit card number.
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