WELCOME
TO:
~FOOTPRINTS
MINISTRY, INC.~
(BRINGING
HOPE TO BEREAVED FAMILIES)
Skip
& Jerry Mudge
6605
Mallard Park Dr
Charlotte,
NC 28269
704-509-6603
~AND
GOD SAID~
~Author Unknown~
I said,
"God, I hurt."
And God said,
"I know."
I said, "God,
I cry a lot."
And God said,
"That is why
I gave you tears."
I said, "God,
I am so depressed."
And God said,
"That is why
I gave you sunshine."
I said,
"God, life
is so hard."
And God said,
"That is why
I gave you loved ones."
I said,
"God, my loved
one died."
And God said,
"So did mine."
I said,
"God, it is
such a loss."
And God said,
"I saw my
Son nailed to the cross."
I said,
"God, but
your loved one lives."
And God said,
"So does yours."
I said,
"God, where
are they now."
And God said,
"Mine is on
my right and yours is in the Light."
I said, "God,
it hurts."
And God said,
"I know."
~MY
SONS ARE GONE, BUT I'M STILL THEIR MOM~
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On
October 26 I was lying on a lounge chair tied to an IV needle, watching
the blood run out of my body. I thought to myself, "This is not supposed
to be part of my job as a mommy?" But there I was at Red Cross, for
my sons.
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Nine
years ago, the unthinkable happened: My only two sons were killed in a
car crash. Leon Jr. was 29 years old and Wayne was 28. A friend
of theirs, Keith Lyles, lost his life too. After the police left
that night, I felt like someone had ripped open my chest and cut half my
heart out. The pain was very real, even though no one could see it.
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A
lot of bereaved parents have a hard time functioning on the anniversary
of their child's death, but I have always tried to do something in their
memory. I have kept doing "mommy" things, even with them gone.
Giving blood to help save others is something that Leon Jr. would still
be doing today; he donated over 2 gallons.
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When
a nurse asked me, "Why did you come today? Did someone call you or
are you just being a good citizen?" I explained that I'm giving to
honor the memory of my only two sons who died nine years ago on that day.
As I spoke, I could feel my eyes watering and tears began to fall down
my cheeks. I was surprised that even now the tears still come.
Tears that are a sign of my deep love for them, which hasn't died.
Afterward,
I went to their final resting place: Forest Lawn Cemetery on Freedom Drive.
Every year on October 26, I go alone to be with them and clean their graves.
Getting out the tools to clean the bronze stone reminded me of all the
times I cleaned up after them when they were younger.
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When
I signed on to be a mom in 1961, I never thought cleaning graves was part
of the job description; it's unnatural. My sons were supposed to
bury me and clean my grave.
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Praise
God, when I arrived to clean their graves, I saw a beautiful flower arrangement
on the monument they share with their father. It has silk rose-colored
gladiolas and pink roses. I have no idea who placed it there or even
if it is for Leon Sr., Leon jr. or Wayne. Maybe it was put there
by accident. I just know that seeing it there made my heart leap
and helped make my day. There are some things in life we don't have
to know to appreciate.
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After
cleaning their bornze plaque and placing flowers in their vase, I bowed
my head and prayed. I thanked God for all the years I was privileged
to love and care for them. I thanked Him especially for making me
their mom. My job is not over yet.
~Jerry Jonas
Mudge~
The Charlotte
Observer~
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