Health and social life
SOCIAL LIFE, HEALTH AND OPTIMISING
Intelligent optimising leads toward a healthy social life:
Also in the human social groups it is good if all the wholes are unbroken, healthy and natural which means: according to instincts, moral, common sense, honesty, fair play, healthy mind and spirit, etc.
One must start from a picture of what a completely healthy and honest and fair natural human society is like: a human relationship is a part of it. And compare the other options to that only afterwards. Otherwise one tends to obscure the view of the whole, or to lie to oneself because of one's already existing habits and choices of life. But the fact remains that the most natural is the most efficient and the best choice in many respects.
So one cannot manipulate people (manipulation is artificial, evil: breaking behaviour or behaviour which doesn't create natural healthy both-sided bonding behaviour between people, so it creates broken wholes which do not give the individuals the strenght that healthy social relationships would give them.) and so aim at the best functioning or best intelligence.
Instead one gains the best social support by being a good natural healthy kind of social relationship, and best understanding of behaviour and characters by emphasising with one's social environment, by being a good fair emotional deeply touched social relationship to others. Because that is the natural way for the human society to function: it uses the social resources most efficiently to the good of both individuals and of the pack or society, since it is the way that the evolution (or God) optimised us to function.
This may be easier to understand with the help of the already familiar picture: the diagram
The smallest circles in the diagram here are the individuals,
the next biggest level describes the different natural functions (getting food and shelter, sharing wisdom, nurturing children, caring for emotions i.e. for all the living requirements,...) of the human pack
and the biggest level the natural functioning of the whole pack or the whole world.
Read the texts Honesty and Justice and optimising. Also human relationships and human groups are systems, so one can apply to them what one knows about the optimising of systems: a healthy one works better than a broken one.
My Favorite Web sites
The diagram
The role of feelings
Learning from others in a healthy social context
Honesty
Justice
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