Natural Ways

There is a natural way to live which brings happiness and a clear persption of how things are together with great capacity in everything and extremely well functioning social life. This is what I seek to describe by these texts of mine. Getting a grasp of the art of livinf (WITH a holistic view of things!!!) everything falls into place. Religiously said this would be the buddhist enlightenment as a way to live according to the soul of God's word. It is the one and only correct way to live, in which there are all sides of life correctly. You can build it a piece by piece, starting from your own understanding of life, you can put the parts to correct places that you know how to put, and so things will get aomewhat clearer in your mind and you will see new solutions appear, which you can then likewise solve and so little by little (or much by much) solve the whole world into a good state. This is something that you cannot achieve just for yourself since you are by your nature a social being, so it is the nature of your understanding that it will spread in your environment, it will be love and universal love in essence: free for all to use and always for the good, never for evil.

(Buddhist wisdom says that happiness and skill are bought by a correct way of using the attention which is described as seeing things as they are, so it must mean also good quality thinking. In addition we know about the numerous tales about the buddhist enlightenment that it brings a compassion toward all living beings and a continuous enjoymentof life, so it must be good socially too.
What about the evolution: it created an as well working whole as possible, so all the good qualities must be present at the same time if we just get a grasp of the right way to live.
And if God created humans, there is propably one correct way to live according to God’s intentions which have partly been described in the creation work and partly in our religious feelings which too may stem from that age long ago when humans lived as a part of the natural world. In such a world also the atheists would prosper just via that correct way of life which is no simple matter but a multi-sided phenomenom, requiring all of our capacity to the fullest. So it is no wonder that atheists get a grasp of some side of it: they too are creations of God and their true nature and their unencumbered understanding guides them correctly. )


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This is the page that I least would have liked to write since it boasts on things that are just impressions and not anything really trustworthy. But since those impressions were so strong and abundant at one time of my life, I feel oblidged to write these pages of mine. I write also because my ideas are worth getting to know. I feel that I owe to the world that I explain them so that others can use them if they judge them worth that.

I do not know whether one can write about oneself like this but I want to sell my ideas, the excellent moral to You, so:

There is a singer called Kaija Koo and the words of some of her songs (in the album Tuulikello = Wind bell (a string instrument played by the wind)) describe well what kind of social feedback, social atmosphere I got when I used a social style accoreding to this theory perspective of mine:

"This is not enough,
it will not stop like this
to your next life
I aim to find"


"do you know that you are
the heaven inside me
when my old heaven turned out to be just a theater scene

do you hear it shouting
the voice of eternity
it is the sound of love

do you know that you visited
my soul
I do not know even myself to have been there

I think that I saw you
somewhere before
as child when I believed in miracles".


What was my own role then like? It was more like Eva Dahlgren's song Ängeln i rummet, The angel in the room:

"...There lives another one in my body (meaning: not somewhat ugly social relationships like usual but the result of following beautiful feelings)
who is one of the most beautiful ones in the whole world
She is love and hope
And she tells you
how much I love you..."


This IS true. Please try yourself!


And how to get this to work in practise? By making the other one to get a grasp of the right way to live, there will be natural friendliness born out of that right kind of state of mind. By it you can overcome many unfriendly uncounters. It is like in a song by Eva Dahlgren: Kanske för minnenas skuld, Maybe for memories' sake.

"I do not like you!

Look, how beautiful it is outside
snowflakes falling (getting grasp of the right mood)...

I do not like you!

Maybe for memories' sake
Maybe for love (building on good things)..."

To be clear, it is the role of a teacher in the art of living. It brings enjoyment unimaginable compared to the ordinary social life with all its unfriedliness.


To be clear: This does not mean that I would have been so much interested in the others, I was more interested in life and in my hobbies, the others were not friendly enough - the others were very much interested in me instead. And it does not mean that I would have been in a subservient role toward others helping them like this. Instead it was a very much dominant role of deciding the rules for the social life. And what an nice atmosphere it did bring: see the first thought on my main page www.paradisewins.net/index.html.


But what was this like to me? It was like the song This Night by Kaija Koo in her album Tuulten viemää (= Run away with the wind ?):

"This night - I will take everything out of it
I will take more than what is my part
I will dance, sing and drink
and the extra round I will bring to my table

When you are there and eat me with your eyes
I will dance and my shoes will spark
the white wine will wash the past away
and I will ride the wavew of love

This night, I will take everything out of it
I will take everything, so I will do
White wine, the night deep blue
I glow in the flame of love"

This is what life is like. This I want to share with you all. That's why I write. Please read at least my main page www.paradisewins.net and try to endure through my book Work Efficiency and Likings which you get for free at stores.lulu.com/khtervola but which may demand a some kind of registering to that service. It could really give all thsi to you - in practise!

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