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INSTEAD
Instead of telling me my daughter's death was meant to be or God's will,
Tell me you are sorry my daughter died.
Instead of looking at me like I have leprosy,
Embrace me with a hug that is filled with such warmth.
Instead of telling me I can have another child,
Let me grieve for the one that died.
Instead of telling me it is easier for me she died young,
Let me share my cherished memories I have, and my pain for those that will never be.
Instead of trying to fix my pain and make me happy,
Let me cry for my precious one, she is worth every tear.
Instead of telling me I have other children,
Let my heart bleed for the one I will never watch grow.
Instead of avoiding me or walking on egg shells,
Reach out to me, for I need a friend who cares.
Instead of telling me not to be sad, or cry,
Offer me a loving shoulder.
Instead of telling me to go on with life,
Walk beside me on this journey of unknowns.
Instead of trying to change me back to who I was,
Except who I have become.
Instead of your pity,
Give me your love and compassion.
Instead of silence,
Remember her with me.
BY: Jan
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