Reasonable and
Unreasonable
Expectations for Couples

Don't expect perfection.
Do expect honesty.
Don't expect him/her
to read your mind.
Do expect him/her
to anticipate you.
Don't expect infatuation
to last forever.
Do expect true love
to last forever.
Don't expect to live happily
ever after without
working at it .
Do expect to live
lovingly ever after.
Don't expect him/her to be
reasonable at all time.
Do expect him/her
to control
their emotions most of the time.
Don't expect to be "in sync"
all of the time.
Do expect to forgive
one
another on a regular basis.

Affair-Proof your
Relationship
Be best friends.
Don't nag.
Laugh together
often.
Make love often.
Don't wear sloppy
clothes to bed.
Don't let problems
go unresolved.
Keep your partner
among
the top 3 priorities.
.Let the infatuation
fade,
but keep
the passion alive.
Never relinquish
your role as your
mate's lover.
Make some sacrifices
but don't martyr
yourself for his/hers sake
Weave love, sex and
romance into the fabric
of your daily lives.