First, learn as much as you can about what your
child is going through. BE SUPPORTIVE!!! Make sure you and your child know
and understand what is happening. Educate yourself and your child so all
questions are answered.
Never treat your child like they are disabled or
handicapped. Don't talk down to them. The last thing you want is to have
your child think they are doing something wrong or that they have mental
problems and aren't normal.
Many people in the world have TS. I am an adult and
i have had it forever. There is nothing you can do to change the fact that
someone has TS. Although you can make it easier by showing support. At first
you will feel alone, but soon you will find there are many of us, and we are
here to help. There are local Tourette Syndrome Association ( TSA ) chapters
all over. Find one and join.
Alot of parents are embarassed because their child
has TS. Remember TS is passed on through generations, so it is not really
new to your family. There are people in this world who look down on everyone
who isn't what they call normal. These people aren't real friends anyway.
Children are more influenced by their parents than by anyone. Parents shape
and mold young minds into what they are as adults. Parents can also destroy
a childs mind by negativity.
Everyone in this world is different. Some are tall,
some are short. Some are rich, some are poor. Some can sing, some can dance.
Some can see the future, some can't remember where they put their glasses (
they're on your head ). Some are weak, some are strong. I could go on
forever, but i won't. In all these groups there are people with TS.
I believe TS has sparked creativity in me. I play
guitar and piano and i write my own songs. I have never had a lesson in my
life. My IQ has been tested a few times with scores between 149-152 although
i didn't do well in high school ( i also have ADHA ) I feel this is all
linked to TS. So there are positives if you look for them.
People with TS can have completely normal lives. I
was a United States Marine, an undercover store detective, and now a Private
Investigator. These jobs involved quick thinking, hard work, alot of skill,
and plenty of training. All done while having TS. It can be done, and it is
being done everyday by thousands of people with TS. All that is needed is a
chance and the support of family.
Love your children no matter what. If they have TS,
educate them and yourself. Don't let them go through this alone. Let them
know it is ok and that there is a WORLD of support out there for them and
you.
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