Kathleen Mitchell knows girls like Nicole, a
prostitute,
because she once was one herself. Now, however, she
runs DIGNITY
House, a halfway house for prostitutes who want to leave that
life behind.
Nicole denies knowing her, but listens to Mitchell's pitch as she wipes
off the fingerprint ink.
"We're not here to judge you, we're not cops," Mitchell says.
"We just want to let you know there are other options. Eventually
you will have to stop."
She gives Nicole a card, says to call if she needs anything. The police
load Nicole into the paddywagon. Mitchell has simply planted a seed. Nicole
is not yet miserable enough to ask for help; she has a pimp who will bail
her out tonight. She's young, and the streets have yet to take their toll.
It isn't hard to get into the sex industry. The hard part is getting
out.
In Pretty Woman, Richard Gere reclaimed Julia Roberts from the ranks
of hookers by putting her in a red dress and getting her to stop fidgeting.
But when the subject is a 10-year crackhead, it takes more than Hollywood
to get her ready for the opera. It takes a saint. Or a miracle.
Prostitutes and police alike use these words to describe Kathleen Mitchell,
founder and coordinator of the DIGNITY program. This 56-year-old grandmother
has dedicated her life to helping women escape the sex industry. She teaches
classes to prostitutes in jail and runs DIGNITY House, helping prostitutes
who want a new, saner vocation.
With her white hair and gentle, soft-spoken demeanor, it is easy to
imagine Mitchell in this role of caregiver, mother and savior.
She's also a former madam. In 1989, Mitchell was indicted on 14 counts
of receiving earnings of a prostitute, and also on charges of leading an
organized-crime syndicate and conducting an illegal enterprise. She pleaded
guilty to the felony charge of operating a prostitution enterprise. Her
criminal record consists of prostitution charges dating back to 1968.
"I was involved in that life of prostitution for 21 years. It's
one of the hardest things in the world for a woman to live down,"
says Mitchell, adding that society is "willing to forgive drug dealers,
perverts -- but women who prostituted and child molesters are unforgivable."
Mitchell now plays a different role in the lives of prostitutes. A year
spent behind bars offered respite from her pimp and helped her see the
reality of prostitution.
"I sat in jail and watched women come in and out. Circling. The
revolving door. A full year of watching women come in three and four times.
I thought, 'I need to do something for me, because I don't have the addiction
for drugs, I don't have the addiction for alcohol. I have an addiction
for a man.'"
". . . It's relationships that push us into this, keep us in it
and push us further."
She formed DIGNITY -- Developing Individual Growth and New Independence
Through Yourself -- in Durango Jail in 1989 as a support group for women
wanting to leave the sex industry.
Her DIGNITY House residency program opened its doors in a central-Phoenix
neighborhood in April 1998 under the auspices of Catholic Social Services.
Read the full story in Phoenix New Times' March 16-22, 2000 edition or at its
web site.
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