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Soap Opera Digest

March 25, 2003

No Holds Barred

Michael Nader goes on the record about his arrest, those HIV rumors and his lawsuit against ABC.

By Elaine G. Flores

Michael Nader It's been more than two years since Michael Nader's (ex-Dimitri, All My Children) fall from grace. On February 24, 2001, he was caught with cocaine in an illegal social club and charged with possession and -- more scandalous -- selling. But the charges were downgraded to misdemeanor possession, and Nader was ordered by the court to undergo drug rehabilitation. He did so. Months later, Nader was summoned to a meeting with ABC executives, who told him that they wouldn't be rehiring him. Now, the actor is in the headlines again: He's suing his former employers for $32 million under the Americans With Disabilities Act. On a recent afternoon, Nader told all about the tumultuous past couple of years and the reasoning behind his lawsuit.

Digest: How are you?

Michael Nader: I'm wonderful. I'm about eight-tenths of the way through the second draft of my screenplay, which is going to be about the Jekyll and Hyde of addiction.

Digest: Is it a fictionalized account?

Nader: No, except for one area that's sort of like Traffic...

Digest: Have you written before?

Nader: No, I haven't written before.

Digest: But it comes naturally to you?

Nader: This one does because it's my life. It's really an autobiography ... [including] the events that happened to me and the events leading up to my first round of serious alcoholism.

Digest: Would you like to see it on TV? In Hollywood?

Nader: I think it could be a two-parter on HBO or USA, or it could be a motion picture.

Digest: Would you star in it?

Nader: I'd like to get -- what's his name? -- the kid from Black Hawk Down. Josh Hartnett. You at him, and he sort of looks like me when I was his age.

Digest: You've mentioned that you talked to groups about addiction.

Nader: Over the years of my first tenure in recovery, one of the things that I took great pride in was going to institutions and jails. I'd got to detox centers. I'd go to 28-day program recovery spots and speak. And I'm doing that again.

Digest: Does doing that help with your own recovery?

Nader: Absolutely.

Digest: Did the press attention make it harder for you to recover?

Nader: It didn't. I'd had my wake-up call.... There ware always intrusive, humiliating [stories].

Digest: Right after the arrest, the HIV stories started. Where did that come from?

Nader: I don't know.... All of a sudden, [it was] "Nader Purportedly HIV-Positive and Dying of AIDS." That was only there for a short time, and then Matthew Perry had his relapse. The day that Matthew hit the press, Nader and his dying issues, like a baby and bath water, were thrown out the window, and Matthew took over. They had a God-awful picture of me in some yelling scene where I did look like I was ill. And the fact of the matter was, at that time I was -- with the alcohol.

Digest: But not HIV?

Nader: No.

Digest: You're healthy?

Nader: Yes, I'm absolutely healthy -- I guess that will follow me until it's of no interest anymore.

Digest: Tell us about your decision to sue ABC.

Nader: It was not my idea.

Digest: Whose idea was it?

Nader: It was the outrage of the lawyers who handled my criminal case. What we're fighting is the morals clause.... The fact of the matter is that the disease of alcoholism and addiction, as I understand it under the Americans With Disabilities Act, is not a moral issue. It is a disease. Now, whether an arrest is a moral issue, that we will look at. If that is their stance, then why was I not fired? Why was I put under suspension?

Digest: Your first time on the show, did anybody ever say, "You need treatment?"

Nader: Well, no, I didn't have a relapse for 10 years while I was on the show. This only happened within the last year when I came back. They had let me go, and eight months later, they called and said, "We want you back on the show."

Digest: When they let you go in 1999, did it have anything to do with [drugs and alcohol]?

Nader: No, because ... before that, I had my wake-up call.... It should have been. It was when I had that DWI [in 1997].

Digest: How did they react to that?

Nader: Not even a suspension. Just, "What happened here, Mike?" And I told them what happened. What had happened was more extensive than what came out. I was beaten to the ground. The police recognized me, never read me my rights, freaked out. I was on the ground [and ended up] with 17 stitches and contusions on the ribs. With my daughter in the car. We had a big case there. But you can't do that. You can't sue the police unless you lose an eye or you're shot. Look what they did with that guy they shot [41] times. Everybody got off. But that should have been my wake-up. And it was, for a while. But I didn't cover my back with recovery.

Digest: You were dealing with the death of your mother.

Nader: I had gotten my mother [in Los Angeles] all hooked up with the care system she needed, and then she progressively got worse. When I came back on the show, about six months into it, I had to fly out. She died. And then I came back. During that period of time, I sort of went off the deep end emotionally.

Digest: That precipitated your arrest?

Nader: It did precipitate it. I can't say in all honesty that was the cause. What the cause was, I was in a relationship with someone who was younger. I had been introduced to a whole new circle of younger friends, and everyone drank. And everyone had a right to drink. A year and three months into it, I sort of dropped off on my meetings and stuff, and one night, I said, "You know what, I can have one." And that set off a slow progression of my insanity. Did I know that night that I was going somewhere illegal? No. In fact, I was going home. I had been at a club close to my house, and a bunch of people said, "Oh, come on, Mike, come down with us." I had been emotionally wrecked, wasn't ready to go to sleep and headed over there. And lo and behold.... It was a very humiliating experience. I want to say this for the record. There was a guy named Officer Soto. He and a bunch of the other detectives recognized me, and they made it possible for me to get through that night.... I owe him a great debt. In fact, he's in the movie. I'm going to find him, and he's gonna play himself.

Digest: Even in the most hideous circumstances, sometimes there is that silver lining. What good came out of this situation for you?

Nader: Well, regaining my life, my sobriety. It could have gone the other way. People have recurring problems. The two most publicized are Perry and Robert [Downey, Jr.]. Right now, they're holding. What I have that they didn't have is that long lineage of sobriety. That puts me in a safer range because I know the type of vigilance that I have to carry on with.... It is like a mathematical equation. You have to follow certain principles to get through it. If you waver from it, if you go out in those places -- the legal ones -- if you hang out with people who drink, if you don't have a social network of sobriety in your life, if you don't go to the recovery rooms, you will end up picking it up again. It's just part of the nature of addiction.

Digest: Your fans are so devoted. We've received thousands of e-mails. Some fans still petition the network to bring you back. Do you want to go back to AMC?

Nader: It's a very, very tough question. To go back to where you were told, "We never want you back." Those are harsh words.... For the fans, I would go back for a negotiated settlement of this lawsuit. I would give them six months.

Digest: You'd better put in your contract that Dimitri would not be in a coma.

Nader: Remember that? I was drooling on my shirt for three weeks.... If they want to bring me back from a business trip and create some havoc with Susan [Lucci, Erica] and her current love interest....

Digest: You had a lot of support from co-stars. Is there anyone you want to publicly acknowledge?

Nader: Absolutely. Mark Consuelos [ex-Meteo] and John Callahan [Edmund], Ray MacDonnell [Joe], an old pro, left me a beautiful message on my phone. I called to thank Ray, and at that time I was not allowed to be put through. I had no access. No one was allowed to talk to me. I didn't get to say thank you. Mark stood by my side. He was very instrumental. I had to wait, like, seven days, for Betty Ford. He helped me, and within three days I got into Hazelden. It was all because of Mark. It was a financial concern I could not meet. At that stage I was pretty emotional, psychically shattered, and Mark picked up the ball and helped me.

Digest: Speaking of finances, were you blackballed by the industry?

Nader: I understand that the industry could say, because of the bad headlines, "Oh, out-of-work actor, fallen behind alcohol and drugs. Has an attitude. Is suing the network. Why take a chance on him?"

Digest: What would you say to prospective employers?

Nader: I [gave] 10 years of pretty good service, not only to my craft, but to the character and to the ratings of that show. That should have been looked at.

Digest: Would you still consider daytime?

Nader: Sure. I'm pretty good at what I do. On March 11, I celebrate my two-year anniversary of recovery. So, hey, get on-board!

Digest: Is there anything you want to say to your fans?

Nader: They are devoted, and I love them very much. I want to thank you for the years of support and for the venue today. I really appreciate it.

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TV Guide

May 4, 2002

Don't Count Him Out

Michael Nader & Susan Lucci Michael Nader lost his job on ABC's All My Children after being arrested [on suspicion of] selling drugs in February 2001 (Nader pleaded guilty to [misdemeanor] drug possession). Now the 57-year-old star -- who had a nine-year run as the soap's Count Dimitri Marick -- has filed a $31.7 million lawsuit against the network. The actor (left, with Susan Lucci), who is seeking compensation for unpaid wages and professional and emotional damages, underwent treatment at the Hazelden clinic in Minnesota after the incident and was sentenced to three years' probation in a hearing held last May. Nader claims that ABC promised to rehire him when he got better but that, despite maintaining his sobriety since the arrest, he subsequently met with ABC Daytime senior vice president of programming Felicia Behr and was, he says, "very rudely told that my return was never going to happen." (At press time, ABC had yet to be served papers and would not comment.)
"I feel I'm in the same league as Matthew Perry, Robert Downey Jr. and Darryl Strawberry," says Nader of fellow celebrities whose employers stood by them (at least initially). "We all have the same disease. We all deserve a second chance."

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Soap Opera Digest

April 23, 2002

Michael Nader Sues ABC

Michael NaderMichael Nader (ex-Dimitri, All My Children) has filed suit against ABC for breach of contract. "This lawsuit is, in a general sense, part of the path I'm on in terms of writing my autobiography," says Nader, who was dismissed from his wildly popular role as Count Andrassy after a highly publicized drug bust in February, 2001. At the time, ABC issued a statement that said in part, "If Mr. Nader gets the help that he needs and addresses his problem, and it makes sense for the show, we would be prepared to speak with Michael in the future."

After pleading guilty to misdemeanor possession last May, Nader was put on probation for three years and ordered to undergo rehab. He did so at Hazelton Clinic in Minnesota. ABC arranged a meeting in September, in which Nader was told that he wouldn't be asked back to AMC.

According to reports, Nader is seeking nearly $32 million, which includes $1.74 million in unpaid salary, $25 million in compensatory damages and $5 million for intentional infliction of emotional distress.

Nader, who says he is meeting with publishers about his planned book, hopefully adds, "The autobiography will be turned into a screenplay, sort of a Boogie Nights about my life."

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Soap Opera Weekly

April 23, 2002

Michael Nader Files Lawsuit

Michael Nader Michael Nader (ex-Dimitri Marick, All My Children) filed a lawsuit against ABC on April 3 in Manhattan State Supreme Court. Published reports say Nader is suing the network for close to $32 million - $1.74 million in unpaid wages, $25 million in compensatory damages and $5million for intentional infliction of emotional distress.

In February 2001, Nader was arrested at an after-hours club for the criminal possession of a controlled substance, and he lost his job shortly afterward. He expected to regain his role after completing drug treatment but, says Nader, "They chose to exercise, I guess, the morals contract."

Nader just celebrated a year of being clean and sober. "I'm writing my autobiography, [and] I'm writing a screenplay about the incident," he reports. "I'm putting together a roundtable [discussion] with Bill Moyers and guys like Robert Downey Jr. and Darryl Strawberry. It's time for everyone to know that addiction is a very serious illness."

[Note: The picture above did not come with this article, but I included it here because it was taken right after the news of his lawsuit came out.]

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Soap Opera Weekly

Mar. 4, 2002

Michael Nader's Conduct Draws Suspicion on Law & Order: Special Victims Unit.

This week on Law & Order: SVU, Michael Nader (ex-Dimitri Marick, AMC) is "back on the boards" in a key role on the NBC police drama.

"Robert Prescott," Nader explains, "has a penchant for videotaping his sexual liaisons with women. It's a small part, but it's a pivotal scene."

Prescott certainly looks suspicious. "He's so obviously the kind of guy that could do something as horrific as what happened, but..." Nader teases, refusing to give away the ending.

"Michael did some fine work with us," praises executive producer Neal Baer. "He has a couple of really incredible scenes that you shouldn't miss."

Law & Order: SVU airs Fridays at 10 pm. EST on NBC.

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Soap Opera Weekly

Dec. 4, 2001

Despite the rumors, Michael Nader isn't taking over the role of Days' Stefano, last played by Joseph Mascolo.

"Though it's nice to have my name out there, it's not happening," insists Nader, who is currently writing his autobiography and has started a production company.

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Inside Edition

Nov. 2, 2001

Michael on Inside Edition A cautionary tale of how one man's life in the fast lane ended up with a star trying to pick up the pieces.

For years, Michael Nader was known as Dimitri, a popular villain and sometime love of Soap super diva, Susan Lucci. Or you may remember Nader playing Dex Dexter, opposite Joan Collins in the now classic television show, Dynasty. But, you haven't seen Michael Nader in some time. The actor found himself arrested, and out of a job, in 2001.

So, how did Nader go from the height of fame, to the bottom of the heap? It's a tale he's only telling Inside Edition, and it's as dramatic as any of his roles.

Nader: "You know, I got into the party scene, and I got into all of the usage that goes along with that -- the drinking -- the dabbling in drugs."

Nader's career on the screen starts back in the fifties when he was in high school. He's discovered while surfing, and cast in a number of beach movies.

Nader: "Well, it was like one film after another. I went to Beach Blanket Bingo, Beach Party, How To Stuff A Wild Bikini, Ski Party."

Modeling photo shown on Inside Edition But, Nader's acting career gets sidetracked when he becomes one of the top male models of the late sixties. At the same time, he develops a problem with drugs and alcohol.

Modeling photo shown on Inside Edition
Nader:
"We had a lot of fun and did a lot of partying, and there was a price for all of us to pay."

In 1972, Nader checks himself into rehab.

Nader: "I ended up in a place called Habilitat in Hawaii for two years."

A short time after leaving rehab, Nader's substance abuse is back. But, his career moves ahead. In 1981, he lands an audition for a new television show called Dynasty. [By 1983, he has quit drugs and alcohol.] Nader stars on Dynasty until 1989, then he lands on a daytime Soap, All My Children.

But, run-ins with the law lie ahead. In 1997, Nader is charged with drunk driving and resisting arrest while driving with his 13 year old daughter. [The DUI and "driving with a minor" charges were dropped.] Then, in February 2001 comes the event that would change his life. Nader is arrested in an after-hours club in New York for possession of cocaine.

On the show, his character is sent on a cruise. The character may be out to sea, but Nader says he's not. He's sober and plans to stay that way.

Nader: "The upside of this is I can tell you honestly from my heart, that night was God doing for me, at that time when I couldn't do for myself."

The editors of Soap Opera Digest tell us they still receive hundreds of letters each week in support of Michael Nader.

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~ Nader Speaks ~

[This article, written by Elaine Flores, was published in the Oct. 30, 2001 issue of Soap Opera Digest. ]

In 1991, Michael Nader, who had gained fame for his role as Dynasty heartthrob Dex Dexter, debuted as the mysterious, brooding Count Dimitri Marick on All My Children. He quickly obtained leading-man status and was prominent in some of the show's most memorable tales that decade. Then, in 1999, the popular actor was abruptly let go. Fans mobilized and a group called the Michael Nader Loyalists spearheaded a campaign to get him back. Sure enough, the presumed-dead Dimitri washed up on Pine Valley's "shore" in 2000. On February 24 of this year, the actor was arrested in a drug raid at a New York social club and charged with possession of and selling cocaine. AMC recast with Anthony Addabbo and said in a statement, "We certainly hope that Mr. Nader gets the help he needs. If Mr. Nader gets the help that he needs and addresses his problem, and if it makes sense for the show, we would be prepared to speak with Michael in the future." In April, the charge was downgraded to misdemeanor possession. Nader was ultimately sentenced to undergo treatment, which he completed. In July, Addabbo's Dimitri and the Count's wife, Alex, headed to Europe on a secret mission. After Nader had scheduled an interview and photo shoot with Digest for an update on his life, he at last heard from ABC in late September. He was stunned by what he was told. On a recent morning, the actor, looking fit and healthy, told Digest what transpired.

Digest: Tell us about what happened.

Michael Nader: I first of all want to thank you and your magazine for your interest. I understand that part of it is that your mother is a big fan. So, "Hi, Mom! Big kiss."

Digest: She'll love that.

Nader: I was contacted by ABC [through] my lawyer, and he got in touch with me and said, "They called to have a meeting with you." I said, "Really? Well..." They told me to rest easy in my sobriety, recover since the tragic night that I had the final problem. To cut to the chase, the meeting was totally ... I felt like I was cut off at the knees. And the reason for that is when we got there, they were effusive about the way I look.... They immediately turned to the reality that they wanted to inform me that they have no plans now, or ever, to bring Dimitri back.

Digest: So, of course, you went into this thinking there was a completely different reason.

Nader: They had to take the position they took [in the beginning], and I understood that.... But the courts exonerated me except for my own personal problem, which I immediately took responsibility for and did what I had to do. I had for 10 years contributed a pretty powerful guy, and I did a good job with the character. There was a tremendous response from the public. [But] I was told flat-out: "We have no plans to bring you back -- or the character. We don't know how we're going to finish him off. But Mike, to let you know, when we brought you back the last time after the decision to let you go, we really have had no storyline for you at all." For years, Dimitri and Erica were a popular coupling. A good friend of mine, Jack Scalia [Chris], is on. I haven't checked in enough to see where the storyline is, but you know, that alone would be a dynamic triangle. And there are other people on the show who have been in dry dock on storyline for years. I took responsibility for what I did. My animosity is, I had a contract for two years. I had a problem, I took care of it. [In the sports world] when anyone gets in trouble with a problem like this, they're given time to rectify that problem. And if they take responsibility and show up, then they're nurtured by their bosses. Obviously, the final choice here was not to nurture, but to have a meeting -- that could have taken place in a phone call -- to tell me in person, 'Not only will you not be back on the show, but we don't even know why we brought you back,' in essence.

Digest: Do fan campaigns make a difference?

Nader: I think when I first exited...they might have looked at the fan response. But I think it was, "Oh my gosh. There's a huge part of the energy missing." I think some of the scenes that I had with Finola [Hughes, Anna/then-Alex] before I left were powerful enough where they went, "Gosh, this is a great triangle for John [Callahan, Edmund], Finola and Mike." And that's the reason they brought me back on.... The storyline with Edmund and Dimitri, the Marick brothers, there wasn't a brother duo on television that had the sort of power that John and I could bring to that relationship.

Digest: When you came in before, you said, "Michael Nader says good-bye to daytime." If there were a change and they asked you to come back, would you?

Nader: No. I don't want to go back. I'm not shutting the door on daytime. And I'm not shutting the door on ABC or the show. I was told the character was gone. This article has no reflection on me trying to get a job back. I just wanted to let the fans know the real deal.

Digest: What is the most important thing that you'd like us to say?

Nader: Just to keep it clean [laughs].... I'm very upset, not at losing a job, but in the context of what I went through, in the context of fan support, in the context of the years and the dynamic nature of the character, to have that all fall apart. My heart goes out to the writers because they have to juggle a lot. My heart does not go out to business affairs.

Digest: Finally, do you want to say anything else to your fans?

Nader: Yeah, to the Loyalists, to Carole, to Michelle, to all of you, I know how angry you've been. Let's have a little peace and closure here. In terms of where I'm heading immediately, a friend of mine, Fred Pauzar at Group One Productions in Orlando, FL, and I are exploring a film project and a forum to explore addiction in a creative way. Hopefully, we can move forward on it.

~ Don't Count Him Out ~


Now that AMC has decided not to bring back Michael Nader as Dimitri, some other Soap could snatch up the popular actor. Here's some food for thought:

Dashing DiMera: Because of Days of Our Lives's Stefano has so many children who pop up out of nowhere, how about a brother?

Mr. Mendorra: More than a decade ago, One Life to Live visited the fictional kingdom of Mendorra. Nader already knows how to play royalty. Can't you picture him as a prince?

Senor Santos: Guiding Light frequently refers to Carmen's former husband, Miguel. Sure, he's supposed to be dead, but it's a Soap. Carmen has been resurrected on more than one occasion.

Oh, Oakdale: Nader portrayed Kevin Thompson on As The World Turns from 1976-78. Thompson succumbed to liver failure, so he's really gone, but how about if Nader returned as Jennifer's dad, Darryl Crawford, who was last played by Rex Smith in 1992? Wouldn't that make things interesting for Barbara?

Move Over, Moondoggie: Nader starred in a string of '60s teen movies such as Gidget, How to Stuff a Wild Bikini, Beach Party and Beach Blanket Bingo. What if the still-buff Nader surfed into Passion's Harmony as a hunky lifeguard? He could surely resuscitate a lot of the lonely ladies.

A Count, Of Course: Now that Port Charles has explored vampirism, suppose that Nader made the leap from playing a Hungarian Count to a Transylvanian one. We bet he'd bring a lot of bite to the role.

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~ Starting Over ~

[This article, written by Gabrielle Winkel, was published in the July 3, 2001 issue of Soap Opera Weekly. ]

Michael Nader's world crashed around him on the morning of Feb. 24 in an after-hours club on the lower East Side of New York. Not only was the popular All My Children actor (ex-Dimitri Marick) forced to face his drug and alcohol abuse, but the press went crazy with accusations - including the rumor that he's HIV-positive, which was immediately denied by his agent. For the first time since the accident, Nader reveals exactly what happened, and how he's putting the pieces of his life back together.

The Arrest: "It was like this army coming in - black suits, shotguns. It was such an extreme gesture for something that you don't think is that extreme. It is 4:35 in the morning, but you don't think it's this huge drug den; It was just this sleazy after-hours bar."

The Awakening: "I was emotionally shattered. That night, God did for me what I couldn't do for myself because I probably would have still been in the rut of denial. And that night, after all the pain subsided, I knew what I was up against. It was time to stop."

The Present: It's June 7, 2001, Michael Nader looks fit, rested content, even serene at the Soap Opera Weekly photo shoot.
[Rest your mouse over the picture to the left, to see the other picture from the magazine article.] And the actor is loving being in front of the camera, albeit a still one. "I'm a hambone. I've got a big chunk of that in me, and I've always appreciated that."

He gets serious when asked to talk about the arrest. "You do illegal substances, you end up in illegal places. The night this thing happened I was at a club, a regular club, and [some friends] said, 'Oh, we're going down to this after-hours party, come on down.' I almost went home. Then I said, 'All right, I'll come down.' And I walked in there talking and a guy in the group unbeknownst [to me was an undercover cop], and the incident went down. It was not a sales incident (published reports said Nader had allegedly sold drugs to an undercover cop; charges were dropped); it was a personal-use situation.

"Even though the process is humiliating," Nader says, "I was treated with respect. Four of the detectives were big fans and very sad to see me there. They cared about me very much during that night, to the extent that they would have liked to have gotten me home safely, but the circumstances didn't allow that. [They said], 'Mr. Nader, we know the impact this is going to have on your life, so stay strong; you're loved in this community; and you will be stronger because of this.' But if it wasn't for those four guys, I don't think I would have made it through that night, because the emotional reality really almost put me into a nervous breakdown. I had to go to the hospital."

Nader went to Bellevue hospital, "just to rehydrate. I was not wrecked out of my mind or anything. I was very clear and contrite." And then he got himself to rehab at the well-known Hazelden clinic in Minnesota, where he stayed the requisite 28 days. On April 24, Nader pleaded guilty to the charge of criminal possession of a controlled substance, and was sentenced to three years probation. End of story? Not by a long shot.

Nader's battle with addiction all but began at birth. "I come from an addicted family. My mother had the same addiction that I have. I rehabilitated her, and we had some wonderful last years together."

Before Nader's other brush with the law - a drunken driving arrest in August 1997 he enjoyed 17 years of sobriety and was active in 12-step programs. But he relapsed and fell into drinking again, "thinking one more time won't do any harm...which is really a letting go of the principles of the program. Mom's passing away [in July of 2000] is when I made the switch from drinking to the coke use, to keep that pain from overwhelming me. [NOTE: The article says that Michael's mother passed away in 1997, however, she in fact died in 2000. See SOW's correction below.] When I went out (to California) and held her dead body in my arms for the last time, it shattered me."

As did the drugs and alcohol. They "affected my health. [They] made me not as quick; everything was harder to do. But some of the work was good," he chuckles. "I lost at least 20 pounds, had sunken cheeks. Drugs and alcohol take your spirit. That's what I think was so readable [on-camera], that I was a dried-up spirit. This is hard for me to talk about, so bear with me."

Though network management and AMC's producers were unaware of his problem, several co-stars were quite concerned. Nader speaks lovingly of Mark Consuelos (Mateo). "Mark was a family to me during part of the incident, and he kept my anonymity. He cared for me, and he said, "Mikey, come on, take care of business. You need some help. You're looking tired. You're burnt out.'" When it was time for Nader to go to a rehab, Consuelos took care of all the arrangements.

Nader left the series immediately following the incident, and Anthony Addabbo (ex-Jim Lemay, Guiding Light) took over the role. "They had to separate me from the show, because I wasn't in a state to give them the service I should. I recognize that, and I chose to dive into recovery as deep as I could go, and that's what you have to do. You have to want it, and I wanted it, and I'm very sad for the time it took me to get through my denial. If [ABC] feels that Dimitri is a character that they want to pursue on the show, I'm sure that they'll give me a call. If not, I absolutely understand and accept the reality of damaging the show at a very important time. But the larger issue is that I cared about my work, and I'll continue to care about acting. I don't feel the show failed me - I failed my job."

Nader wanted to go to the powers that be at ABC and talk about his addiction, but admittedly feared repercussions due to the morals clause all actors are required to sign. Upon investigation, SPW learned Nader didn't have to fear the morals clause. A spokesperson for ABC issued the following statement: "The Company has a well-publicized program in place for all employees with substance-abuse problems. This program provides complete confidentiality and counseling to employees and, as needed, referrals to an appropriate program. Unfortunately, Mr. Nader never sought the help that the Company makes available to its employees prior to his arrest."

Nader is now back in New York and staying busy, one day at a time. "A typical day is waking up to my dog shoving his nose in my face 'cause its time for Dad to get him outside, and then I do a little meditation in the morning...a little spiritual reading at breakfast." The actor then goes to aftercare and a 12-step program.

As for a return to AMC, an insider says that anything is possible now that there's a new head writer - Richard Culliton, who wrote for AMC eight years ago, and who sources say was instrumental in the Wildwind stories. "As far as I'm concerned, there's only one Dimitri," and insider tells SPW. However, in July the characters Alex and Dimitri will be written off; they are going on a very long vacation. AMC stands by its official statement: "If Mr. Nader gets the help that he needs, and if it makes sense for the show, we would be prepared to speak with Michael in the future."

Nader is working on a few projects, but adds, cautiously, "You don't want to put the ball back into action too quickly."

The actor will be a spokesperson for a New York State program called Second Chance, "which is going to be inaugurated within the next six months. A friend of mine in politics says, 'Mike, you, more than anybody, are the person who has the second chance. You've had long-term recovery, you've known what it can give you, and you know what the disease can do to you. Kids have to hear that.'"

Nader is looking forward to spending time with his teen-age daughter, Lindsay, this summer. The advice he's given her is universal: "Do not test the waters [of alcohol and drugs]. Because even if you weren't addictive...those waters aren't worth testing anyway. You are so much yourself and full of life. Any substance would decrease that force that you have for life. So stay with life. Stay with the force."

On page 41 of the July 24, 2001 edition of Soap Opera Weekly :

"CORRECTION: Michael Nader's (ex Dimitri, All My Children) mother died in July 2000 (Starting Over: Vol 12 Issue 27). Nader's cocaine use, which he said coincided with his mother's death, began last year."

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Soap Opera Digest Online
(http://www.soapdigest.com/soap/article1.cfm?id=3333)


In the issue of Soap Opera Weekly on newsstands June 26, Michael Nader (ex-Dimitri, AMC) speaks candidly about his recovery from addiction, his recent trouble with the law, and his plans for the future.

The actor is grateful to his friends and fans for their support. Recovery is the number one focus of his life today, and with the help of aftercare and 12-step groups, Nader appeared fit and well when he sat down with Soap Opera Weekly’s Gabrielle Winkel. "That’s a good year process," Nader explained. "[I’ve] put the attention back on walking through the pain of this experience, staying in touch with the pain, and allowing my feeling to be there and sharing my feelings, stay in touch with Mike. I’m somebody that needed to be cared for and I couldn’t take care of myself. [Now] I’m real proud to be able to ask for help."

Nader has reconnected with several of his AMC co-stars and lighted up when he talked about Mark Consuelos (Mateo), who helped Nader get into rehab right away. "Marky took care of it for me, you know, and I went and took care of business and came back."

And last, but by no means least, Nader talked about his loyal fans. "The fans understand. All I got was support."

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E! News Daily
June 26, 2001:


Lead in: Trouble in Daytime. Soap opera star Michael Nader opens up to E! about his drug arrest and getting fired.

Narrator: "Soap Star Michael Nader's life spun out of control last February after police arrested him for allegedly selling drugs. And now in one of his first interviews since the incident Michael Nader sets the record straight about the arrest and about getting fired from All My Children. E!'s Linda Grasso has the truth behind the rumors."

Michael: "What happened is here was a man who had many, many years of sobriety, I stopped taking care of myself and I fell off the wagon, as they say."

Grasso: " Former All My Children star Michael Nader says reports he sold cocaine to an undercover cop were not true".

Michael: "The night that this took place I did have a small amount of this illegal substance for personal use, and we had an officer that took things his own way and stretched the truth and I was exonerated by the courts. I have a bit of a probationary period to walk through, but there was no sale involved. It was a personal possession charge which was a wake up call for me."

Grasso: "Michael is currently in an outpatient drug rehab program. He says he's focusing on fixing his career and image. So far he's landed the cover of this week's Soap Opera Weekly".

Michael: "A number of times I wanted to go to the producers and tell them I was in trouble. But, I had a big fear of 2 things, a denial that I wanted to stay in the process and another fear that if I do this, I'm going to be like nowhere. You know as Robert Downey Jr. has gone through it and Mathew Perry has gone through it, when you have an addiction problem, you don't get to go home like other people and take care of yourself. You get blasted by the press. What hurt me the most is I called the show, and I couldn't call, you know, the curtain had been dropped and that just hurt, because I have friends there. The blessing for me is that I'd had enough sobriety in my life to know I had to take care of myself again, and I have."

Narrator: "All My Children producers tell us that his character, Dimitri Marick, is going on an extended vacation."

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~ An Open Letter From Michael To His Fans ~

[This letter was published in the April 3, 2001 issue of Soap Opera Weekly.]

To all of the people who are fans of All My Children, let me begin by letting you know that I am in a safe place and am turning myself totally over to the process of recovery. I am once again overwhelmed by the generosity, kindness and support by all of you through this difficult period in my life. I hope to be back on the show as soon as possible, playing the role that I love so much, "Dimitri Marick".

ABC has treated me with that same kindness, asking me to take charge of my recovery. The door is slightly ajar for my return, but only if I successfully finish and maintain my program of recovery. Also, I am anxious for all of you to know that the charges filed against me are inaccurate.

God bless you all for caring.

I will not let you down.

Gratefully yours,

Michael Nader


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