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Jessica:Hi all! It's A whole new year! Which just means more problems if you ask me! Tia: That's right! Now we are bi-monthly! Which means twice as many letters!

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Dear Jess and Tia
Okay. I go to an all-girls school, but we have the boys school attached on, so it's not a big deal. But the thing is, the 'joint production' is coming up soon--in fact the first meeting is on Thurs. I've never been exactly the kind of girl that many guys actually notice, if you know what I mean. But I want to change that. Starting Thurs. So I'm asking you, Tee and Jess, to tell me what to do. How the hell do I actually get someone to notice ME and not my friends who they've all known for ages? Please help. But there are a couple of catches: a)everyone's in uniform. B)no make-up or jewelry allowed.

~Wishing It was Co-Ed

Tia Says
Wishing It was Co-Ed
Believe it or not Grace went to an all girls school and there are a lot of ways to show your indivdual style!

One change your hairstyle! I'm not talking drastic. Here's an idea for something temporary that if ya do it will look great! After you shower while your hair is wet. Braid your hair! The smaller the braids the smaller the curls that will come out! Be sure to blow dry your hair. After it's blow dried add baby oil. It will be like a temporary perm.

Even though you can't wear make-up try to get away with a nice sheer lip gloss. If you wear a skirt shorten the hem a bit and add thigh high socks. I'm not talking slutty short but at least knee length. You proabably have to wear black shoes right but take your time picking out a nice pair that you like. Never buy something plain!

Also do you wear short sleeve or long sleeve shirt? Change whatever it is you wear. And the most important thing is remember that you are important. If these guys don't notice ya now. You still have your whole life ahead of you!

Tee ;)

Jessica Says
Wishing
I agree with everything Tia says but remember change your attitude too. If your shy aroung guys or quiet than try to talk more. Guys do notice looks but they also notice how you act. So loosen up.

Pick one guy who you can be comfertable around and talk to him than the rest will come. Believe me getting a guys attention is easy!

Good Luck and let us know what happens!

Jessica ^0^

Here's the next letter:

Hey Tia, Jess.
I've liked this guy, Steve for a few days now. He is REALLY funny, and sweet. He ends up talking o me a lot in Homeroom, Spanish, and English. I just go along with him, pretending not to care that he is talking to me. Is that the right thing to do? I feel like everytime I want to say something to him, it would make me sounds like an idiot. So, I just end up watching and waiting for a chance for me to blurt out somethig that is not moronic.

~Watching and Waiting

Tia Says
Watching and Waiting,
This guy sounds nice. I knwo it sound like something your mom would say but be yourself and just try to loosen up. Maybe the reason he's always joking around is because he is nervous too. Just keep on doing what you have been doing. I have a feeling things will work out.

Tee ;)
Jessica Says
Waiting

Why are you waiting? Try to talk to the guy. Don't let it be all about jokes. You want to find out about this gut know the real him so try to have a conversation

I suspect that the reason he jokes around so much is because he may have a thing for you!

Jessica ^0^

Dear Jess and Tia
Help me Tia and Jessica! I'm a really nice person with no friends and no future and no life. Everybody hates me coz of the way I look...which I can't help...so what if I've already got my child bearing hips? I'm a little over weight and plus I'm pretty smart so people either hate me coz I'm fat and ugly or smart and square.

And by the way, I'm not square, my only couple of friends say I'm far from square and they like me for just the way I am, but sometimes I get the feeling that they are just using me and they don't really want to know me.

They live down the street and never invite me anywhere, and when I invite them to do something with me they say they are too busy. I'm really upset. What do I do? I'm starting High School in a couple of weeks and I don't want to be the loser who sits by herself at lunch. Help me!!

~Chubby

Tia Says
Chubby
First off be happy with who you are. Remember that you are the only one that will be with you for the reast of your life! Second it sounds like your "friends" are just using you so I suggest you use them back!

In high school everything is about what you dress like or look like or talk like. It's totally depressing.

Anyway here is my advice. When you got to school look for clubs on things that you like. There you will meet people who like the same things as you do. You'll make REAL friends. Even if you only make one true friend. One true friend is wortha zillion phony ones!

Tee ;)
Jessica Says

I have one question for you. Are you happy with the way you look. If you are Forget the people around you. Be who you are. Trust me someone will realize that you are a great person

Don't try to change who you are for anyone. just be your self!

Jessica ^0^
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