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Believe me i do understand the appeal of wearing women's clothes and trying to be as feminine as possible, But i also think it could be a dual edges sword and i offer a precautionary piece of advice. Be careful what you wish for, as it may come true

Hypothetically You agree to be TV and switch roles with your wife/partner/Mistress (This is what happened in my case) then 6 months down the line you realise you made a mistake. It may at that point in time be to late to change, depending on your agreement with your significant other.

It worked in my case, but what works for one may not work for anyone else.

If you are just playing out a fantasy you need female clothes and probably a wig and shoes, but just putting on these items does not make you look like a woman. Best you can hope for is to look like a bloke in drag. If this is what you both want then that's fine.

I think its much more a case of a mental adjustment, well it is in my case. I can pass as a woman without makeup most of the time, but it is easier to pass if you are wearing some subtle make-up. But i do think you need to feel the part to be convincing.

In my case i am dressed at least partially in female clothing 24/7 ie i am always wearing panties, bra, nylons (tights or stockings and suspender belt) If i have to go out i always have these items of clothing on underneath my boring male clothing, Once behind closed doors i add breast forms a dress/skirt, top a wig and paint my fingernails. My toenails are already painted and they always are.

i have to be careful with makeup and when i wear makeup i also have to wear perfume as my Mistress dislikes the smell of make up. as to collar well i wear a necklace 24/7 which is my 24/7 collar. I also have a formal collar and a day to day collar for when required.

In fact i find i need to switch back to my normal leather collar for about a week every couple of months as the other collar begins to irritate my neck after a couple of months.

In bed I wear panties bra and forms plus of course a night dress. Why i wear underwear in bed is simple really. Mistress Often likes to remove my underwear and it is One of the ways she enforces her dominance over me.

Did i mention that i am sexually the female partner now as well, again it works for us, but probably wont work for everyone

If you want to go the whole hog then you have to discuss it with your Partner or significant Other, but beware if you wear a dress and she likes you in a dress you may be in a dress for the rest of your life :) "Sure Sounds Like Heaven To Me"

Basic supplies if you are serious though are in my opinion

Wig which you must properly maintain and brush

A ladies electric shaver as well a selection of ladies wet razors.

assorted cosmetics ( I will go into this in greater detail elsewhere on these pages)

Breast forms ( I would go for simple birdseed in trouser socks nylons to make your own forms first, as they can be made to sizes to suit your needs. They are more durable than silicon or foam forms and thus can be worn in bed) Silicon forms are more expensive and they look great, but there have to be looked after. If they are not to heavy they can be stuck directly onto your chest or used with doubles sided tape or just placed in a bra.. Better sensation in my opinion is when they are stuck onto your body

You will of course need a Brassier of a suitable size for your forms

top and skirt or my preference is for a dress

Panties of your choice or better still a gaff which will also contain your penis and keep it out of the way

Nylons either tights or Stockings and a suspender belt or perhaps hold up stockings, beware though they can irritate the legs where the silicon makes contact with your skin and they can cause skin blisters

Shoes, I prefer heels, but they take quite a bit of practice to get used to.

It can be expensive and embarrassing to get all this kit together, but it can be done over a period of time. It will however be humiliating at first going to buy the clothes you want. But if you are serious about this you will do it to get the clothes and kit that you want.

To start though the internet is a source of clothing and accessories as is Argos These two are pretty stress free when buying female attire for the first few times at least

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