Believe me i do understand the appeal of
wearing women's clothes and trying to be as feminine as possible,
But i also think it could be a dual edges sword and i offer a precautionary piece of advice. Be careful what you wish for, as it may come true
Hypothetically You agree to be TV and
switch roles with your wife/partner/Mistress (This is what happened
in my case) then 6 months down the line you realise you made a
mistake. It may at that point in time be to late to change,
depending on your agreement with your significant other.
It worked in my case, but what works for
one may not work for anyone else.
If you are just playing out a fantasy you
need female clothes and probably a wig and shoes, but just putting
on these items does not make you look like a woman. Best you can
hope for is to look like a bloke in drag. If this is what you both
want then that's fine.
I think its much more a case of a mental
adjustment, well it is in my case. I can pass as a woman without
makeup most of the time, but it is easier to pass if you are wearing
some subtle make-up. But i do think you need to feel the part to be
convincing.
In my case i am dressed at least
partially in female clothing 24/7 ie i am always wearing panties,
bra, nylons (tights or stockings and suspender belt) If i have to go
out i always have these items of clothing on underneath my boring
male clothing, Once behind closed doors i add breast forms a
dress/skirt, top a wig and paint my fingernails. My toenails are
already painted and they always are.
i have to be careful with makeup and when
i wear makeup i also have to wear perfume as my Mistress dislikes
the smell of make up. as to collar well i wear a necklace 24/7 which
is my 24/7 collar. I also have a formal collar and a day to day
collar for when required.
In fact i find i need to switch back to
my normal leather collar for about a week every couple of months as
the other collar begins to irritate my neck after a couple of
months.
In bed I wear panties bra and forms plus
of course a night dress. Why i wear underwear in bed is simple
really. Mistress Often likes to remove my underwear and it is One of
the ways she enforces her dominance over me.
Did i mention that i am sexually the
female partner now as well, again it works for us, but probably wont
work for everyone
If you want to go the whole hog then you
have to discuss it with your Partner or significant Other, but
beware if you wear a dress and she likes you in a dress you may be
in a dress for the rest of your life :) "Sure Sounds Like Heaven To
Me"
Basic supplies if you are serious though
are in my
opinion
Wig which you must properly maintain and
brush
A ladies electric shaver as well a
selection of ladies wet razors.
assorted cosmetics ( I will go into this
in greater detail elsewhere on these pages)
Breast forms ( I would go for simple
birdseed in trouser socks nylons to make your own forms first, as
they can be made to sizes to suit your needs. They are more durable
than silicon or foam forms and thus can be worn in bed) Silicon
forms are more expensive and they look great, but there have to be
looked after. If they are not to heavy they can be stuck directly
onto your chest or used with doubles sided tape or just placed in a
bra.. Better sensation in my opinion is when they are stuck onto
your body
You will of course need a Brassier of a
suitable size for your forms
top and skirt or my preference is for a
dress
Panties of your choice or better still a
gaff which will also contain your penis and keep it out of the way
Nylons either tights or Stockings and a
suspender belt or perhaps hold up stockings, beware though they can
irritate the legs where the silicon makes contact with your skin and
they can cause skin blisters
Shoes, I prefer heels, but they take
quite a bit of practice to get used to.
It can be expensive and embarrassing to
get all this kit together, but it can be done over a period of time.
It will however be humiliating at first going to buy the clothes you
want. But if you are serious about this you will do it to get the
clothes and kit that you want.
To start though the internet is a source
of clothing and accessories as is Argos These two are pretty stress
free when buying female attire for the first few times at least |