Welcome to my site

My Name, well my given and adopted name is stephannie(J} note the {J} Its important. For those not in the know a capital letter behind my lowercase name gives away quite a bit of information.  i am submissive (more on this in a moment) The capital J is the initial of my Mistress and in this case also my owner and wife/Dominant.

Now about my submissive tendencies. anyone other than my own mistress who tries to order me around gets very bluntly told to f*** off. Yes i am submissive, But i am not submissive to everyone. I am submissive only to my own Mistress and anyone Mistress orders me to be submissive towards.

In fact i have in the past told Dommes and Doms where they get off in no uncertain terms and their faces are priceless when i reject them. So Don't make assumption's when you see someone whom you suspect is submissive. That person may or may not be submissive. That person may or may not wear a collar. Either way talk to that persons Dom/Domme before you make any  assumptions and don't just jump in with the attitude I am Dom/Domme you are sub, you will obey me, or you are libel in my case to get a fist in your face first and i will ask questions later.

Its a matter of respect. a submissive is not a second class citizen and in most cases submissive's are much stronger people that you my believe. The submissive gives his or her Dom/me the gift of submission and there is nothing more priceless than that gift freely given between consenting adults. So no matter what a persons orientation, respect that person as a person first.

In my case well it can't be that much of a surprise from my picture on the right that I am a feminised sub. Actually my title is Maid to my Mistress. With all the privileges and the punishments that go with that position. In the picture on the right i have used no make up, does it show? reasons for no make up later though.

I have split this site into two parts. Part of it deals with my servitude to my Mistress  and the other part of the site is devoted to Links and recommended places to get clothes, shoes etc. I also have a blacklist unfortunately and i would like to draw attention to some of the on line stores i have had exceedingly bad service from even worse some come out with lame excuses, endless delays and in some cases downright lies before they finally complete your order. I think in some cases this is designed to earn interest on a customers money before they actually have to supply your goods.

The other side of the coin though can be very impressive Particularly, particularly when compared to the les than good suppliers.

I also want to give make up tips and while i am no expert I do get by in that department. i know a couple of clubs that are TV friendly, but how about people doing their own club reviews and indeed reviews on anything else for us girls by choice or girls force feminised.