If you are out and would kill for a cup of tea be wary. American's haven't really grasped the concept of 'proper tea'. Even if they serve English Breakfast or other pure varieties always ask if the water is boiling when they make your favourite cuppa - most likely they will tell you 'no' but its pretty hot. Pass, and go for something else otherwise you will be disappointed.
Tipping always trips me up - coming from a country, and even having lived in other countries where tipping is not expected, nor did the staff have to rely on tips to boost their wage, I just can't get use to remembering to leave a tip or trying to work out what I am supposed to be adding as a tip to the bill. I've heard other expats also comment on how they found compulsory tipping in the U.S. a very much calculated (usually 15%) nuisance - as if patrons should be the ones to make up the difference on the meagre salary given by the employer. You have to be a non-American to understand its not being mean (as most will add some kind of tip to a meal's cost anyway) but its irks us to be made to feel you HAVE to, even if you weren't happy with the service.
At fast food outlets of course, you do not need to tip but we rarely visit them anyway. In our area there are the normal chain restaurants and individual Chinese and Mexican places but to find anything different you have to travel a fair distance to other areas. When we do however, we are not let down with our choice of meal. The wine list menu sometimes adds the odd bottle or two of Australian wines although it seems these are the less chosen ones and so despite being on the list, are not always in stock. The 'Soupa Salad' and the 'Fresh Choice' chains are a great alternative for their salad bars - but generally, it is hard to find healthy food in the South. At one time a news report advised that a man in another part of the country was suing a fast food chain or chains for their unhealthy food. He had been frequenting them for years and it took 2 heart attacks for him to realise that the food was unhealthy. So he then decided to sue them... oh please.. give me a break!
BYOB (bring your own booze) restaurants are rare here in Texas. In Australia/NZ/UK, these types of restaurants help keep down the cost of dining out because of the option of bringing your own wine or beer. A meal out, while saying it using American dollars can seem inexpensive, if you convert what you paid to A$ for a comparable meal, its fairly expensive (probably double the cost of a meal in Australia), then of course there is the obligatory 15% (usually) tip on top of that.
This is the BIG state and most Texans eat big too. Mexican food is in every corner of Texas and its influences have permeated the traditional Texan food which has brought about the name Tex-Mex which is really the best of both cultures. Rice and Beans are the staple sides in Tex-Mex because their taste and textures blend perfectly with the beef, cheeses and sauces. Watch those beans though.. they WILL come back to haunt you. Corn or flour tortillas are used in almost every recipe.
Chicken-fried steak is served everywhere and is considered by some as the national dish of Texas. Don't let the name throw you, it is actually beef cutlets, breaded and fried like chicken, then smothered in thick white gravy flecked with pepper and was thought to have been invented back in the chuck-wagon days of early Texas. I am not too keen on the white gravy myself. Fried food, known as Texas Grease, is very popular. You can't go to the State Fair without having a big ol' Turkey Leg (and they are a handful) and corny dogs (hot dogs dipped in corn batter, deep fried and served on a stick). Don't forget the spicy Buffalo Wings either - all very much part of the Texas culture.
The self-invented Texas Barbecue is as sacred as religion in Texas. It began in the back rooms of meat markets in Central Texas at the turn of the century and pretty much limited to pit-smoked beef brisket, "sliced thick, tender as butter, stacked on a bun and covered in onions". With ribs though, the meat is usually pork and smothered with sauce. BBQ places are everywhere all with their own sauces, spices and secrets. Frankly I find it hard to taste the meat with all that sauce but fortunately I'm not a big meat eater. Texans love their Steak and Steak Houses are everywhere as are the catfish restaurants.
Chili IS Texas and it varies from mild, hot or three-alarm. In fact, chili is the official state dish but the variations are many. To some, adding beans to chili is almost sacrilegious - the main ingredient (after the meat) is chili peppers (whether chopped, diced, powdered, or liquefied. Personally I prefer Chili without beans - but good and hot. All around the country during the year there are chilli cook-offs and people sure are serious about their chilli. Venison Chili is quite different to try also.
Actually in Texas you get even broader choices with Cajun (from Louisiana) and Native American, plus German, Czech and other European cultures from the early immigrants who settled in this State which have blended in with the Texas taste buds. All around the State you will find little pockets of these communities all with their traditional fare bakeries and restaurants. Whenever we travelled through West (south of Dallas) we always stopped at one of the Czech bakeries there. Wonderful Kolaches (fruit and sausage)and sweet breads as well as focaccia breads. Creole cooking is based upon French stews and soups, and is influenced by Spanish, African, Native American, and other Anglo Southern groups. Cajun food tends to be spicier and more robust than Creole and include pork based sausages such as andouille and boudin; various jambalayas and gumbos; coush-coush (a creamed corn dish) and etoufeé. The symbol of Cajun cooking is perhaps the crawfish. Lets not get into the grits and gizzards.
Don't forget the Donut Shops either - little stores are everywhere but only seem to be open in the mornings. Donuts come in all shapes and sizes with all kinds of toppings. Krogers supermarket always had a 'help yourself' bowl of mini donuts for their shoppers. Connoisseurs of the fattening sweet delights will tell you that Krispy Kreme donuts are the best, they almost have a cult following. You can find cabinets of these in Truck Stops as well as in some supermarkets. Not being a big fan these days of any kind of donuts, I just wish Walmart would stock something else in the bakery cabinets other than dammed donuts! Give me a good 'Kiwi' bakery any day. A new thing with the donut shops is to advertise 'sausage rolls'. This is not the sausage rolls that we know - they are more a bread roll with a sausage in the middle. Some come with cheese as well.
None of the above is anything like Diet Food however there are some great places like 'Soupa Salad' and "Fresh Choice" which offer wonderful salad bars (big selections accompanied by several selections of great soup, breads/muffins/pizza slices and choice of desserts) and Schlotzkys and Jasons Deli which come close in their choice of healthy sandwiches etc. Generally, Texans are far from healthy eaters, in fact the word healthy is relatively new here and still being contemplated and digested along with the buffalo wings and chicken fried steaks. Everything is sweet and way too much sauce (be it mayonnaise or whatever). Portions are huge. Doggy bags are a regular souvenir for me after dining out. The food, with its spice and variety here in Texas though is great but if you are used to a more healthy diet, take it easy otherwise you could have some tummy upsets.
Biscuits in Texas are a variation of our scones (in OZ/NZ/UK) but they are not served as afternoon tea with cream and jam - they are served with breakfast which is usually a mixture of sweet and savoury. The Scones in Texas are, to us… a rock hard/overdone version of our fluffy light scone. Biscuits to 'us' are 'cookies' to the Americans.. this usually comprises a soft chewy version which would suggest to us 'stale' while we find our fresh 'cookies' (biscuits) crisp and crunchy. To the American.. this would be stale and dried out. Confused? ... no kidding.
Sandwiches and chips… now this doesn't mean a sandwich and 'fries' (or chips as 'we' call it), it means potato chips and it seems that you can't eat a sandwich here without a packet of 'chips' going along with it. Soup also goes with having a salad in a lot of places.. I would never have put the two together, however. Forget about finding Pumpkin soup in a restaurant or even the canned variety. Forget sausage rolls and savouries also, they just don't exist unless you order them through Aussie Products or some such company in the States that cater for the deprived Aussie/Kiwi - in fact the word savoury is not used. There are some meat pies that are not too bad - tasty enough, but the pastry shell doesn't hold together too well when it is cooked. Still if you need a fix of meat pie, tomato sauce and mashed tatties, it does the trick.
Iced Tea is extremely popular in Texas. Most Texans grew up on iced tea with almost every meal and not just during the hot summers. It is consumed in large quantities. For home use you can make your own, buy it in packets or in jugs in Supermarkets. Not my 'cup of tea'. Hot traditional tea is more my morning fix but its not that common - this is the land of coffee drinkers. I was fooled a few times by people telling me they were more tea drinkers now than coffee drinkers. This didn't necessarily mean hot tea but iced tea. One good thing about Texas.. if you're not a big brecky (breakfast) eater in the morning but don't like to miss out, you can usually find somewhere to serve you a breakfast menu at any time of the day.
On the corner of streets you will see a whole stack of signs posted with various addresses of sales in that immediate area. Estate sales are next level up and from what I hear, where the more upmarket goods were being offered. According to Michael's Mum, who was a regular partaker of these Estate Sales in Louisiana, you can get some great buys even if you didn't need them.