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INDICATORS OF SEXUAL ABUSE
Not all of the following indicators will mean your child has been
victimized - some can be part of normal development or signs of stress. The greater the
number of signs, and the more sudden, severe and frequent they are, the more reason you
have for concern.
Physical evidence in genital and rectal areas must be taken seriously and treated
immediately.
In Preschool Children:
| displaying inappropriate sexual activity or showing an unusual interest in sexual
matters |
| mood swings, withdrawal, depression |
| bed wetting, nightmares, fear of going to bed |
| pain, itching, bleeding, discharge, or rawness in private areas |
| regressive behavior: baby talk, sudden clinging behavior |
| sudden unexplained aggressiveness or rebellion |
| inserts objects into genitals or rectum - acts out sexual behavior on dolls or
stuffed
toys |
| sudden fear of specific things, people, places, etc. |
Elementary School Age Children:
| may display same signs as preschool children as well as the following: |
| stomach aches, headaches, and other psychosomatic ailments |
| unusual knowledge and interest in sex beyond developmental level |
| sudden drops in grades, difficulty concentrating |
In Adolescents:
| serious depression |
| inability to trust others |
| self-destructive behaviors: alcohol and/or drug use, eating disorders |
| promiscuity and self inflicted injuries |
| pseudo maturity |
| serious confusion regarding sexual identity |
| aversion toward opposite sex |
| sexual interest in younger children |
Remember, victims are intimidated by their abusers and are more likely to deny the abuse
than disclose it. They will be more willing to talk if an atmosphere of trust and open
communication has already been established in the home. Contact a professional who is
trained in assessing child sexual abuse if you have any doubts.
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