All of the information contained within this site is copyrighted. Absolutely no part of this site may be duplicated or reproduced without the written permission of the copyright holder. Copyright 07/29/00 [LAST UPDATE: 04/06] |  SITE BEST VIEWED WITH INTERNET EXPLORER. PAGES WILL NOT DISPLAY PROPERLY WITH NETSCAPE. Recognizing / protecting yourself from "online players" thru knowing the deceptive practices and tricks players use. PLUS: find player profiling and MOs, warning flags, internet romance advice, poetry -- and more. -- THIS WEB SITE IS NOT JUST FOR SINGLE WOMEN -- Many of us, MEN AS WELL AS WOMEN, have mothers, sisters, female friends who are once again single due to divorce or widowed, or have young daughters coming up into this type of situation, all of whom are susceptible to these online sharks. Thru the information provided here, you can help them to avoid these unscrupulous predators. Not only will you pick up on all the various MOs, but also start garnering common patterns in regard to online players. OR if you've been the victim of a player, you will find comfort in knowing you are far from being alone as well as the encouragement to pick up the pieces and move on. IT'S TIME TO SAY: "ENOUGH IS ENOUGH" !!! There " ARE " sincere, honest men online. The purpose of  WOMAN WAS MADE FROM THE RIB OF MAN  Nor from his feet ........ to be stepped on by him, She was made from his side .. to be equal to him, From beneath his arm ... to be protected by him, Near his heart ..... to be loved by him.  < author unknown > RECOGNIZING / PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM
" DON'T BECOME THE NEXT VICTIM "
PLAYER STEREOTYPES ~ Specific player profiling and MOs -- 23 categories
PLAYERS BAG OF TRICKS ~ All the player tricks uncovered to date that online players use to con women and can be turned against them PLUS: how to find if he has other screen names, how to know if he's blocking you when he's online, how a player can IM and sweet-talk two or more women at the same time, OR can IM someone or two different people, using two different screen names at the same time, and more. SIGNS HE IS ALREADY "Taken" ~ The warning signs that he's really not single, OR really not interested in getting a divorce PLUS: eye-opening facts in regard to the many married men "playing around" on line ... how that "my wife is so terrible" line is used as "bait". UNMASKING THE PLAYERS ~ The many deceptive practices that these Hi-Tech Casanovas use. More player MOs PLUS: how to verify or disprove what he tells you about himself: how to expose false profiles, how to find out if he really is a lawyer, fireman, doctor, etc., or really owns his own plane or business, etc., how to validate or find his name, phone number, and/or address, and more ONLINE WOMEN SPEAK OUT ~ STORIES from played women, PLUS: warning signs, encouragement, insight, online romance advice and more, from online-savvy women reaching out to their online sisters ADVICE FROM ONLINE MEN ~ and that's exactly what it is ... advice straight from the horse's mouth WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT ~ any man or woman who is going through a difficult time, here is an excellent collection of prose and poems that will help you to find acceptance, consolation, regain hope and/or self-esteem... OTHER FEATURES FOUND AT THIS WEB SITE 911 LINKS ~ WEB SITES THAT PROVIDE ADVICE / HELP / INFORMATION :
OTHER LINKS OF INTEREST ~ web sites that: are enlightening, or offer comfort, or humorous -- and other topics of interest ONLINE MEN SPEAK OUT ~ Letter received from a player, if you think your "mate" is having an online affair ~ how to handle it from a male's perspective, how the sincere online men also disapprove of players' online abuse of women, PLUS: male advice on internet relationships ADVICE ON ABUSE / Verbal/Physical/Sexual ~ advice from experts on what steps to take in regard to an abusive situation, where to find help, etc. MR RIGHT CAN BE FOUND ONLINE ~ STORIES from women who at first encountered a player, then later met Mr Right online PRIDE IN BEING A WOMAN ~ great morale booster for EVERY woman REAL MEN ~ a "Special Page" dedicated to ALL the honest, sincere men online ... to show all women's appreciation of " Real Men ". Enjoy, fellas :>) ONLINE SMILES & CHUCKLES ~ humorous graphics, stories, and poems in regard to online players, online experiences, etc. RELEVANT POETRY ~ click on the "dropdown menu" to select . . .
W H A T I S A " P L A Y E R " ? ? ?
 The above graphic is the perfect depiction of a player : a charming smile, a beguiling bouquet, drinking champagne and wearing a tux in the guise of being suave and debonair. BUT look closely ... closer still ... beneath all the glitz ... for the death mask he truly wears ... for players cause a temporary death of one's spirit, dignity, self-esteem, hope, dreams... The incurred emotional damage is extensive ... and long lasting. A REAL MAN . . .
 CYBER-MAN
© R0SEANA@aol.com Dec. 8, 1998 He'll watch you in the chat rooms To win you is his goal He'll woo you and pursue you He'll charm your very soul. So when you get an e-mail And it seems to fill your needs You go ahead and answer Not thinking where it leads. He plays you songs of romance That get your juices flowing He's sweet and kind and lovable And suddenly you're glowing. When you're in his clutches And he has you feeling willing He'll break your heart and drop you He knows he's made his killing. He'll change his name, Start anew, and find another quarry You'll be crying bitter tears While he's not even sorry. He preys upon the lonely He knows just how to please He'll send you virtual flowers And he'll bring you to your knees. So, ladies, while you're surfing Use caution, all you can Have fun but heed the dangers Beware of CyberMan!!!  DISCLAIMER: This web site is not about invading the privacy of others... |